Mz_Zartavia
New Member
Good Morning Ladies!!
I haven't been on lately and that has been mainly because of what's going on in my marriage. Somewhere, somehow there has been a disconnect in my marriage. We argue all the time. Seems as though we can't go more than 48 hrs of peace before we are back at it again. And majority of the stuff we argue about is petty. It's so upsetting that I have drawn back. I don't openly express myself to my husband nor share my ideas/concerns because of being felt like my discussions/ideas/concerns are meaningless. So, my friends have started to become twice my outlet. And THAT in itself has caused even MORE problems.
He accuses me of wanting to be with other people. Accuses me of having something going on with my male friend, who by the way was my best friend before I met my husband (who is 17 yrs older than me). Tells me that I need to get rid of ALL prior friendships because they are a threat to our marriage. And feels that my wanting to travel, be adventurous, go out to cultural events, and things of that sort (mind you with him) to be a waste of his time and energy. The spark has died. As soon as we said "I Do", things changed.
I could go into this soooooooo much deeper but I don't want to bore you ladies. My reasoning behind posting today is this:
- Are there any married women on the board that can guide me into finding scriptures that pertain to strengthening the marriage? To keeping the devil at bay?
TIA
I haven't been on lately and that has been mainly because of what's going on in my marriage. Somewhere, somehow there has been a disconnect in my marriage. We argue all the time. Seems as though we can't go more than 48 hrs of peace before we are back at it again. And majority of the stuff we argue about is petty. It's so upsetting that I have drawn back. I don't openly express myself to my husband nor share my ideas/concerns because of being felt like my discussions/ideas/concerns are meaningless. So, my friends have started to become twice my outlet. And THAT in itself has caused even MORE problems.
He accuses me of wanting to be with other people. Accuses me of having something going on with my male friend, who by the way was my best friend before I met my husband (who is 17 yrs older than me). Tells me that I need to get rid of ALL prior friendships because they are a threat to our marriage. And feels that my wanting to travel, be adventurous, go out to cultural events, and things of that sort (mind you with him) to be a waste of his time and energy. The spark has died. As soon as we said "I Do", things changed.
I could go into this soooooooo much deeper but I don't want to bore you ladies. My reasoning behind posting today is this:
- Are there any married women on the board that can guide me into finding scriptures that pertain to strengthening the marriage? To keeping the devil at bay?
TIA