QueenHav
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I was trying to be friends with one of my male neighbors; TR. TR has 3 kids and lives with the baby mama. So I keep on telling him that – 1. I am not interested in dating him WHATSOEVER and 2. We can be friends or nothing at all. So he’ll be cool with it one week and then the next week, he’ll be all up in my face again. He's never touched me but he's pretty lewd at times. We've had to dead texting all together - He was just that bad. ![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
One day, he rode with me to the gas station and we ran into a friend of his, Patrick. He’s cute but not my usual type – 6’1, dark skinned, slim, JAMAICAN w/ locs. Patrick and I exchange numbers and have been dating for about 4 weeks.
About a week and a half ago, TR wanted to come over and chill and me and my dumb behind thought ‘Oh. Since TR and Patrick are friends, we can all chill together’. BIG MISTAKE. Dude comes to the door, sees Patrick in there and leaves with a dust behind him – I mean he didn’t even speak to me! (I was confused by this because he knew Patrick was there when he called)
So, yesterday TR calls me and tells me that ‘its real effed up that you don’t want to talk to me but you’ll talk to Patrick. He’s in the same situation as me except he doesn’t have kids. He has a girlfriend and he lives with her’. (I've been to his house - he has 3 roommates, 1 girl and 2 guys)
Later on last night, I spoke to Patrick and he VEHEMENTLY denies this. He seemed pretty upset (but it could have been a front). I called TR and asked him to give me some more info (girl's name, how long have they been together, etc) and he says that he isn't sure that he has a girlfriend, it could be the roommate's girlfriend and he told me that because he was pissed because he couldn't 'GET THAT'.![Blush :blush: :blush:](/smilies/blush3.gif)
The question is: Is TR hating or is Patrick guilty of the 'birds-of-a-feather' phenomenon??
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
One day, he rode with me to the gas station and we ran into a friend of his, Patrick. He’s cute but not my usual type – 6’1, dark skinned, slim, JAMAICAN w/ locs. Patrick and I exchange numbers and have been dating for about 4 weeks.
About a week and a half ago, TR wanted to come over and chill and me and my dumb behind thought ‘Oh. Since TR and Patrick are friends, we can all chill together’. BIG MISTAKE. Dude comes to the door, sees Patrick in there and leaves with a dust behind him – I mean he didn’t even speak to me! (I was confused by this because he knew Patrick was there when he called)
So, yesterday TR calls me and tells me that ‘its real effed up that you don’t want to talk to me but you’ll talk to Patrick. He’s in the same situation as me except he doesn’t have kids. He has a girlfriend and he lives with her’. (I've been to his house - he has 3 roommates, 1 girl and 2 guys)
Later on last night, I spoke to Patrick and he VEHEMENTLY denies this. He seemed pretty upset (but it could have been a front). I called TR and asked him to give me some more info (girl's name, how long have they been together, etc) and he says that he isn't sure that he has a girlfriend, it could be the roommate's girlfriend and he told me that because he was pissed because he couldn't 'GET THAT'.
![Blush :blush: :blush:](/smilies/blush3.gif)
The question is: Is TR hating or is Patrick guilty of the 'birds-of-a-feather' phenomenon??