ellebelle88
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Hi everyone. I was a year into my transition and then I got fed up with spending so much money and time (both of which I did not have) on my hair. So today, after a year of transitioning, I decided to relax.
I recently moved so I went to a new girl who used Design Essentials No-Lye Relaxer. I should have known this was a bad idea because my stylist uses Affirm Lye on my hair. Anyway, I knew from the moment after she washed my relaxer out, something wasn't right.
I know that my hair had broken off drastically from dealing with the two textures while I was trying to transition but I didn't realize how much!! On top of that, she underprocessed me and my hair felt rough. In some places, I look like I barely had a relaxer. I now have two different textures going on. I came home immediately and did a Joico Deep Reconstructor and then I deep conditioned but my hair is no hope. My hair is lifeless and my ends are thin and so sparse. I can't get my hair to have any kind of body because of the two different "relaxed" textures.
I know this is vain of me but I have been crying all night because I worked so hard for the past 3 years to get my hair healthy and growing. I was almost at BSL. Now I think I'm going to have to cut it off at least to shoulder length. I don't want to but my hair looks raggedy. What do you all suggest I do about the ends and the two different textures so that I can be on my way back to healthy, long and thicker hair?
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I don't know what to do. Somebody help me...
Hi everyone. I was a year into my transition and then I got fed up with spending so much money and time (both of which I did not have) on my hair. So today, after a year of transitioning, I decided to relax.
I recently moved so I went to a new girl who used Design Essentials No-Lye Relaxer. I should have known this was a bad idea because my stylist uses Affirm Lye on my hair. Anyway, I knew from the moment after she washed my relaxer out, something wasn't right.
I know that my hair had broken off drastically from dealing with the two textures while I was trying to transition but I didn't realize how much!! On top of that, she underprocessed me and my hair felt rough. In some places, I look like I barely had a relaxer. I now have two different textures going on. I came home immediately and did a Joico Deep Reconstructor and then I deep conditioned but my hair is no hope. My hair is lifeless and my ends are thin and so sparse. I can't get my hair to have any kind of body because of the two different "relaxed" textures.
I know this is vain of me but I have been crying all night because I worked so hard for the past 3 years to get my hair healthy and growing. I was almost at BSL. Now I think I'm going to have to cut it off at least to shoulder length. I don't want to but my hair looks raggedy. What do you all suggest I do about the ends and the two different textures so that I can be on my way back to healthy, long and thicker hair?
[Pics removed.]
I don't know what to do. Somebody help me...
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