I really love intercultural relationships, especially within the African diaspora, so I thought I'd start this thread.
Are you dating/married to a black man from a different cultural background? Share your story here: Yep a Nigerian (igbo) man whose parents originally came from Nigeria; my SO was born and raised in the USA.
Where did you two meet? We initially met in high school and became friends. He wanted a relationship with me but I wasnt so sure if I wanted to be with him. We both ended up going to the same college (although I was a year ahead of him).
How long have y'all been dating/married? It will be 5 years on Sept 21
Is it hard being from two different cultures? Other than gaining his parents acceptance which is the only difficult part of our relationship; our relationship is wonderful and he is very driven, hardworking and has a lot of family oriented values that I would love to have instilled in our future children. I could never see my self being with anyone else as he respects me and supports me in all aspects of my life. He is my first and hopefully my last
Issues may arise once we take that further step into being married one day, but for now its not too hard.
**I've noticed that Nigerian men have a negative reputation, but there are both good and bad men in every culture.
If you have or plan to have children, how do you intend on raising them? I believe that it is important for our future children to know about their history. My SO and I do not know much about the Nigerian culture but I hope that it is something we can both learn about together. I am hoping that someday in the future when his mom accepts me she will be willing to educate me or at least teach me how to make proper jollof rice
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