Have any of you ever been in one? What was the most difficult part about it? How far from each other did you live?
TIA....
I was. My man lived in another country. We spoke very often and saw eachother about every other month. I had alot of miles. It takes a lot of trust and dedication, but it worked out so far. We are happily married with a toddler. He will also be a citizen in a few weeks, and voting for the first time in November.
Yes, I was in one for a little over a year. The hardest part was wanting instant gratification ie wanting him to come over during an unplanned time to hang out and just chilling. He was 5 hours away in anothe state.Have any of you ever been in one? What was the most difficult part about it? How far from each other did you live?
TIA....
Okay said:Have any of you ever been in one? What was the most difficult part about it? How far from each other did you live?
TIA....
Okay said:Have any of you ever been in one? What was the most difficult part about it? How far from each other did you live?
TIA....
Ugh Thinking bout trying a LDR...Military Im currently deployed Airforce and hes army which makes it so much more difficult Hes in Kanas Me texas ugh
But i think im gonna give it a shot if it work or doesnt ill let you guys know
Did i mention Hes my EX Rekindle the flame Maybe
YES!!!! I just visited my dude and when I left I wanted to cry so bad.I am in one now.. It is really hard. We live in different countries. Most difficult part is leaving after visiting him..
One of the hardest parts of LDRs is the fact that you have a man, so its like youre a hostage. I used to be depressed that I couldn't do things like go out to the movies, or to dinner etc. You have to decline offers because you are in a relationship, but cant do it with your SO either. Dedication. It definitely was hard to say good-bye everytime I had to leave.
I always say that LDRs can work if you both have a plan of being together in the future. If you are waiting out a temporary separation, but you are planning to come together, then it will work. If you are just in your respective locations with no plans to unite, then it makes no sense.
It was extremely hard but I love my hubby and wouldn't trade him for the world. We spent roughly 3 yrs separated by distance, before he moved here with me 4 years ago. We have a 2.5 yr old and the two of them are the loves of my life.