LOA/Visualization vs Your actual love life. Does the vision match your reality?

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BlackHairDiva

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I have a question...

When you were in you teen years / early 20s did you envision/visualize how the perfect man would approach you ( aka strike a conversation etc), where you'd meet etc... If so,does that vision match up with how it happened in real life. Did most of your boyfriend approached you the way you had envision back in your teens/ early 20s??

I know a lot of people beleive that visualizing / seeing the picture in your mind. It eventually transfers into real life and becomes a reality.

Is it really the case?
 
I used to have movies playing about meeting them in my head lol.

True Story

I can share one story that was very much a LOA testament. Theres an actor I saw on television, hes not very famous, but slightly well known. Hes native american. When I saw him I instantly felt a connection which was so weird for me, but I just knew I had to meet him. Mind you, I had never met him or had no way of knowing how to even contact him. I developed a sort of crush on this guy, and yes I used to fantasize about actually meeting him and being his gf. I know it sounds weird but the end result is amazing. I had dreams of this guy and on imdb I discovered his b-day. This is significant bc the day of his b-day one year, I watched a movie called Before Sunrise where two strangers meet on June 16th and spend the whole day together and fall in love. I was thinking of how romantic that would be to meet this guy and do the exact same thing.

Because I am part Lakota, I spend lots of time on the indian reservation. I ran into an elder who I started doing vounteer work for. He told me that his son was an actor, but I didnt put 2 and 2 together yet. Fast forward to an event the man invited me to. It was on June 16th. When I arrived there I saw a man sitting at a table and staring at me. It was the actor. So I actually met him on June 16th! I wont tell names or go into details about my current status with this guy just to protect all of our privacy. The point is that I did dream of this guy and even picture conversations, etc with him. I even met him on the day that the movie I watched took place on. What I dreamt of and what actually happened was slightly different, but what really happened was far better than I could have ever imagined. So LOA really worked but better than I visualized.
 
when i was a kid and thinking about relationships, i don't think i ever really thought that far into the future, with men i didn't know. i usually just thought about whoever i had a crush on at the time.

i never thought so far ahead about guys...
 
No my dreams in my head are much better than what I have been faced with in reality. Never thought I would have to do online dating to meet a man. I though he would find me in undergrad. He still hasn't found me.
 
I used to fantasize about meeting/marrying a certain type of man. I used to purchase wedding magazines, all of the above are forms of visualization. But, my relationships fell short of that. I hope that isn't discouraging to anyone because what I truly believe is that had I stayed consistent with a routine of visualization, my experinces would have been more positive. I have visualized about many things in other areas of my life and most of them came to fruition. So, I think it is essential to attracting the mate you want. Just my two cents...
 
sharmeans said:
I used to have movies playing about meeting them in my head lol.

True Story

I can share one story that was very much a LOA testament. Theres an actor I saw on television, hes not very famous, but slightly well known. Hes native american. When I saw him I instantly felt a connection which was so weird for me, but I just knew I had to meet him. Mind you, I had never met him or had no way of knowing how to even contact him. I developed a sort of crush on this guy, and yes I used to fantasize about actually meeting him and being his gf. I know it sounds weird but the end result is amazing. I had dreams of this guy and on imdb I discovered his b-day. This is significant bc the day of his b-day one year, I watched a movie called Before Sunrise where two strangers meet on June 16th and spend the whole day together and fall in love. I was thinking of how romantic that would be to meet this guy and do the exact same thing.

Because I am part Lakota, I spend lots of time on the indian reservation. I ran into an elder who I started doing vounteer work for. He told me that his son was an actor, but I didnt put 2 and 2 together yet. Fast forward to an event the man invited me to. It was on June 16th. When I arrived there I saw a man sitting at a table and staring at me. It was the actor. So I actually met him on June 16th! I wont tell names or go into details about my current status with this guy just to protect all of our privacy. The point is that I did dream of this guy and even picture conversations, etc with him. I even met him on the day that the movie I watched took place on. What I dreamt of and what actually happened was slightly different, but what really happened was far better than I could have ever imagined. So LOA really worked but better than I visualized.
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Awwwwww :love:
 
Thanks for taking the time to answer ladies. I suspect that what I was visualizing since in my teens has come to reality and I need to readjust what Im doing. So current reality is starting to make since and I need to fix it.
 
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