My fiance' and I just ended things on new years day. It's been a tough road. We still remain friends although we rarely speak except for financial reasons and all that should be resolved in a few weeks. He was my best friend so that's been the hardest part. All my girlfriends are married and that's all they talk about is their husbands. I'm pretty much a homebody so I don't get out that much and I'm a little bored now. Any advice?
I know that feeling only too well; serious relationship leading to something permanent and best friend.
I agree with all what's been said so far. As they say, 'time heals all wounds'. Whatever emotions you're going through right now will pass ... it might take a long time but it will. In the mean time, allow yourself to go through and feel all of your emotions and cry whenever u want to to get it out of your system rather than bottling it in. Writing it down could help you understand your emotions better (it helped me). people tend to express themselves better in writing (don't know why, I guess there's more clarity when your thoughts are organized).
Get busy! Write one list of everything you've always wanted to do, tick the realistic ones off, and then work towards doing them so you always have something positive to look forward to. Write another list of self development. This could include new hair goals, training at work, cooking, taking a language course, gym, diet, maybe even blogging/writing. This way, you use your spare time productively and you feel good about yourself as well.
Surround yourself with positive people. This is very important. Maybe spend a little less time with your married friends that always talk about their husbands. Try to make new (preferrably single) friends in your walk in life: at work, church, if you decide to take any classes or get involved in anything, or even on here! What actually helped me the most was my faith; my relationship with God. I don't know what faith you are but investing in your spiritual life is the best way to start.
Finally, healing is a process. It takes a short while for some, longer for others. Take your time - go at your own pace, keep busy, reflect and learn, and before you know it, you're where you wanna be!