I have made a promise to myself not to get involved in friends matters.A close friend of mine was away in college. I along with some friends she had known longer than me, saw her boyfriend and child's father entertaining his ex-girlfreiend (who he was still creeping with) leave a picnic together. This was after they exchanged all these touches together. The other friends made a quick statement on how they don't see anything. Mind you...We ALL saw what was going, an they stood there making jokes. I told my friend and she stopped being friends with me, continued a relationship with the guy AND had another child with him. They are not together presently and we still don't talk.
My other friend met this guy she was dating/sleeping with for three months. He claimed to be this guy in the entertainment industry, but she had never visited his home, there was not one article on him and all kinds of silly stuff. I had a feeling he was not who he said he was so, I inquired about him on a celebrity blog. SHE...through her own investigation found out the man she was sleeping with was NOT who he said he was, NOT his real name AND married for years with children! She found my inquiry on him AFTER she obtained this info herself. She has stopped speaking to me, because she feels I put business on blast. There was not one mention of her name ANYWHERE! I was trying to look out for her because he was proving himself to be very strange. This same girl would keep me on the phone discussing this guy and ranting and raving BUT she feels betrayed by me. It seems she thinks it was none of my business.
So I vow to not let my emotions get the best of me, concerning love ones. Whatever I see or hear I am keeping it to myself!!!
My other friend met this guy she was dating/sleeping with for three months. He claimed to be this guy in the entertainment industry, but she had never visited his home, there was not one article on him and all kinds of silly stuff. I had a feeling he was not who he said he was so, I inquired about him on a celebrity blog. SHE...through her own investigation found out the man she was sleeping with was NOT who he said he was, NOT his real name AND married for years with children! She found my inquiry on him AFTER she obtained this info herself. She has stopped speaking to me, because she feels I put business on blast. There was not one mention of her name ANYWHERE! I was trying to look out for her because he was proving himself to be very strange. This same girl would keep me on the phone discussing this guy and ranting and raving BUT she feels betrayed by me. It seems she thinks it was none of my business.
So I vow to not let my emotions get the best of me, concerning love ones. Whatever I see or hear I am keeping it to myself!!!