Hey girl.....congrats on the big chop!!
As far as products, this is what I do:
-Wash every morning with CON
only
(I don't have time to shampoo, then condition. Also, CON does everything for me in one step).
-Towel dry
-Apply a bunch of SoftTouch grease by Ultrasheen
only.
(This is the only grease that stayes on my hair and conditions it for real. I can only find it at Walmart.)
-Apply a handful of Rave
Shaping mousse.
(This is the cheap mousse with the teal color cap. I can only use the Shaping kind; the others do nothing for me.)
-Let air-dry for a bit.
-Pick/Shape hair before I leave. (Alot of times my hair is still wet.)
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Now, keep in mind that I've been natural before and I've experimented with toooons of products. So far, this is the best method for me and it's pretty inexpensive (CON, SoftTouch grease, and Rave mousse are each only about 2 bucks.)
Also, I've noticed that my hair is much softer and defined if I
rinse my hair at night, apply only grease, and let air-dry under a scarf that I usually sleep in. (I also started spraying a bit of SURGE on my hair/scalp at night; it hardened my hair a bit during the day).
I say try it! The worst thing I did the first time I was natural was underestimate the benefits of grease. Oh, the mousse only works for me if I apply it
after the grease.
P.S. - I never have tangles!!! (knocking on wood)