Ladies that have been through DIVORCE...

[vevster]

Isn't it better to just go ahead and live your life as opposed to trying to find out scoop on your ex?

Even if you are in a custody battle, just let your lawyer duke it out with this....

Any Opinions?

 

[Heartbreaker66]

Absolutely Vevster - you need to just let it go - it will drive you absolutely crazy trying to keep up with the ex. The sooner you are able to cut him out of your life, the better off you will be.

 

[jellynote]

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Heartbreaker66 said:
Absolutely Vevster - you need to just let it go - it will drive you absolutely crazy trying to keep up with the ex. The sooner you are able to cut him out of your life, the better off you will be.

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I wasn't trying to keep up with my ex he was trying to keep up with me. When I decided to divorce him I had already cut him out of my life.

 

[pooh123]

I agree. Its best to totally cut the strings, heal, and get on with your life.
pooh123

 

[hondahoney007]

I agree with everyone else, just let it go. It will drive you crazy. (My ex and I broke up on bad terms). After my divorce, my ex and I didn't speak for about a year and a half. After a while we were coridal to each other because of our daughter. Now we are good friends. I can call him anytime if I need him to watch our daugter outside of his court appointed visitations. He has even invited me over for a friendly dinner and a movie a couple of times. I believe that over time anyone can get thru and overcome a divorce.