Ladies Night Out

Lilmama1011

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Does your SO have a problem with Ladies Night Out? Because we all see it in the movies where there are a ladies night and guys night out whether it is the same night or different nights does it work in your relationship?
 
^^^^ Ditto.. he likes me to go out with my friends since I'm home a lot and I don't trip when he does his guys thing. It's good to have relationships with your girls and that time away from SO/DH even if it is just for a few hours.
 
Yes and no. Ladies night with only my single friends is no good but with my married/committed friends no concern whatsoever. I think it has mostly to do with the attitudes and how it affects me. My single friends tend to do a ton of man bashing and I usually leave those events annoyed/riled up. Although my other friends may complain about their men it's way different and I don't come home with a cloud so hubby is perfectly happy with me going out. And funnily enough my settled friends party harder/stay out later/ get more intoxicated...I think it has to do with living it up due to the high cost of sitters.

I also don't have a problem when they have guys nights in the same way. Honestly I think it's mostly to do with the attitudes/ behaviors of certain groups of people and less to do with the fact that it's a night out. For example, I find single friends are prone to saying stupid things about what my husband will let me do, or egging on to entertain a guys attention for a free drink. That kind of foolishness never happens in the off the market group I hang out with. I've been approached and before I could open my mouth the dude was quickly told to back off because we were all taken. It's like I can go out and be free to let my hair down without cause for concern. Hope my rambling makes sense. Lol.
 
Dh has no problem with it. I go out once per week for dinner with my besties. Well, I used to. Dh travels a lot now so we haven't done it a lot lately.

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Dh has no issues as long as i'm not always running the streets. :lol: He will start looking crazy if I start going out without him for too many days in a row. :lol:
 
Been doing more of this lately, not just dinner or after work events but come-home-after-2am joints.
He's mostly with me at those events but I know he gets a lil' when I'm out where other men might take notice...I like it.
I've "adjusted" my behavior quite a bit.
 
He doesn't mind. One of my close friends is on of those kinda ho-ish types though:lol:, but he knows I'm not like that, so it's OK.

The rest of my friends are boo'd up, or pretty tame. I've never had a partner who wasn't OK with it, even if they were complete homebodies.
 
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