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Ganjababy

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Do you keep in contact with former SO's/DH?








Oops excuse the typo. Now I will find it jarring each time I see this thread and I can't change it.
 
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Yes I have up until a month ago when I found out he was keeping in contact with someone from his past and I didn't like it(long story short she's drama). So in order to not be viewed as a hypocrite I ceased all communication from exes because there is no real need to.
 
yes... i have a guy i dated in college, we still keep in contact (graduated in 09) which i think is nice, that we can be friends. but, he'd probably still think we could hook up, so i couldnt really hang out with him. i also have an ex from when i was in school out of state (back in 05) who i am still friends with, but he lives in another state. i am open to dinner or something if he comes to town.

bf trusts me, and i wouldnt have a fit if i found out he was still friends with his exes either. its not like i talk to any ex on a regular basis or are FRIENDS friends with one. so i dont think it's not kosher.

(oh, i also have an "ex" from high school, but we were never dating as far as im concerned, regardless of his feelings for me, that i have always just considered one of my closest friends. bf has met him, and we are still trying to work out our schedules so that the four of us can go out - he has a live in bm.)
 
I used to do this, but I don't anymore. What changed is that I got with someone that turned out to be an even better friend. I don't hate my ex and do consider him a friend, but during the time that we "kept in touch", he was holding out hope that we would eventually get back together. So I was really just hurting him in the long run.

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Exes from serious relationships...nope. Don't call me...text me...smoke signal...NOTHING. Ex from less serious relationships...yeah and we are friends. However, I don't think it is the best idea. Just don't want to screw up too much...he's a friend within a group of female friends...
 
deltadreamland said:
I have an ex that keeps in touch with me periodically, but I never call him. He initiates all the contact.
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Same here. He contacts me once or twice per year. It's cool since we were good friends prior to dating and have tons of mutual friends between us. DH is cool with him and I with his GF so no problems.
 
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