I hope you don't mind, I moved your questions from the PM to here. Trying to type alot of info in the PM block makes my eyes go
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So to answer your questions:
In general, blacks are treated MUCH better in Germany (and Europe in general) than back here in the states. You have absolutely NOTHING to worry about in that area. Germans are friendly and hospitable people. Try to learn at least a few words in German - it will endear you to them if they see you learn something other than "sprechen zie englisch?" ("Do you speak English?")
While many of them DO speak English, remember - you're a guest in THEIR country, and their national language is German. I saw alot of "ugly Americans" (even my aunt was one of them when she came to visit). Talkin' all loud up in the restaurant talkin about "why ain't no ICE in the soda?!" Uhhhh - because Germans don't really LIKE ice in their drinks! Stuff like that tends to irritate them and make them look at you like .
Also, it is extremely SAFE in Germany. I've never worried about anything crazy happening like I do when I'm here in the states. I could go anywhere, at any time of day or night and be fairly certain no one would bother me.
As for the men, European men aren't shy about asking a sista out. There is a pretty large Turkish population in Germany, and Turkish men L-O-V-E them some black women!! Three of my closest girlfriends met, and married Turkish men over there.
The food is good, but really unhealthy. I gained 30 pounds in the 4 years I lived there. My mom was like "what HAPPENED to you?!?!" when she came to visit.
And yes, I was relaxed there, but I kept my hair braided mostly, because I really didn't start with the whole healthy hair thing until I returned to the states.
I think I got all your questions, but if not - hit me up. Feel free to continue picking my brain as you think of more questions. I know later on you'll be like "ohhh, I should've asked her about....." So I'll go ahead and extend you an open invitation right now.....