Osha, your going to have to tell us more about that WL avi pic. Your hair looks beautiful from what I can see in the avi. Welcome to the forum!
Thanks. my hair is not as good as it looks in pics, it's dry, highly porous and littered with split ends. But I just can't bear to cut too much off, I've recently chopped it to mid back.
Osha, you're in the right place for assistance with all of that. Good luck with your HHJ! I'm confident you'll be at a healthy TBL in no time.