Long story short, God spoke to my heart this weekend in church. I can't even explain how the preacher got through to me, but by God's grace he did.
But the thing is my BF, who is great, everything i wanted, wants things to stay the same. Understadibly so. Our lives and finances are so intertwined that this is a huge issue. He has been supportive and nice about it, but things are definately different between us. He basically made a life for us and now things are changing.
I don't want to force him to do anything (i e ultimatums: marry me or I'm gone!) but its just a difficult situation. I am however determined to do what God wants regardless.
Help....
But the thing is my BF, who is great, everything i wanted, wants things to stay the same. Understadibly so. Our lives and finances are so intertwined that this is a huge issue. He has been supportive and nice about it, but things are definately different between us. He basically made a life for us and now things are changing.
I don't want to force him to do anything (i e ultimatums: marry me or I'm gone!) but its just a difficult situation. I am however determined to do what God wants regardless.
Help....