khrystyle
New Member
Okay, so last night my DH and I were at my mom's house and he puts on our wedding video. For our wedding I got a full head APL fusion weave so that I could have the long hair I wanted because my hair was just not growing. (There is a pic in my fotki) So he makes a comment that he really liked my hair like that so I told him that is my goal, to get my hair to look like that again and immediately he is like we are not paying $500+ for you to do that again. I told him no, I am going to get MY hair to grow that long and he tells me in my dreams! So now I have to prove him wrong!!
So here is what I have done so far in the last few months..
I started relaxing with a JFM texturizer every 8 weeks. Even a mild relaxer was too strong for my hair. I was trying to stretch longer but using Gro-Aut and the other things I found out about my hair make that hard.
I wash and DC once a week. I used to rollerset until I broke my hooded dryer last week. I have to wait until I can afford to replace it (I am a SAHM).
So because of my hooded dryer incident, I blow dry on low/warm and curl the ends on the lowest setting on my curling iron 1x a week. Then I roll at night.
Things I found out about my hair...
It hates to be airdryed
It hates braidouts
It hates bantu knots for more than a day
It hates my ceramic flat iron(dries it out even with heat protectant)
It hates anything other than a low setting on the other heat appliances.
Oh and the other catch is no weaves or wigs. There seems to be an epidemic of my friends wearing them and I hear the comments all the time.
So can ya'll help a sista out. What can I do to not kill my hair with all these limitations?
So here is what I have done so far in the last few months..
I started relaxing with a JFM texturizer every 8 weeks. Even a mild relaxer was too strong for my hair. I was trying to stretch longer but using Gro-Aut and the other things I found out about my hair make that hard.
I wash and DC once a week. I used to rollerset until I broke my hooded dryer last week. I have to wait until I can afford to replace it (I am a SAHM).
So because of my hooded dryer incident, I blow dry on low/warm and curl the ends on the lowest setting on my curling iron 1x a week. Then I roll at night.
Things I found out about my hair...
It hates to be airdryed
It hates braidouts
It hates bantu knots for more than a day
It hates my ceramic flat iron(dries it out even with heat protectant)
It hates anything other than a low setting on the other heat appliances.
Oh and the other catch is no weaves or wigs. There seems to be an epidemic of my friends wearing them and I hear the comments all the time.
So can ya'll help a sista out. What can I do to not kill my hair with all these limitations?