It's Wild In These Relationship Streets...

[Femmefatal1981]

How do you stay married to a man that has several tattoos of another woman's name on his body? One fresh, like from the last month...
Where they do that at?

Not for all the money in China, and yeah he has some money but

 

[Flourishnikov]

Lol You don't.

 

[Femmefatal1981]

Lol You don't.

well I just found out that you do...leaving him is considered "letting the heaux win"

 

[MariposaSexyGirl]

Apparently, she is used to and okay with being treated like the rug at the entrance of the front door.

 

[Flourishnikov]

well I just found out that you do...leaving him is considered "letting the heaux win"

So homegirl is willfully taking an "L" to keep someone else from "winning" when they both lost for vying for fractions of a man in the first place. Bird logic at its finest. Smh

 

[Femmefatal1981]

So homegirl is willfully taking an "L" to keep someone else from "winning" when they both lost for vying for fractions of a man in the first place. Bird logic at its finest. Smh

She has been taking L's for longer than I have been married. I wish I could spill all the tea but the world is too small.

 

[Kindheart]

well I just found out that you do...leaving him is considered "letting the heaux win"

Ego driven . It ain't gonna last .

 

[Femmefatal1981]

Ego driven . It ain't gonna last .

She has been with him over 15 yrs judging by the age of their children, though I believe it is coming to an end. I think everyone involved is all out of F's to give.

 

[NijaG]

The man has been trying to get her to break up with him.

She didn't because of the whole emotional competition thing with the other woman.

Watch him dump both of them and start fresh with another woman.

 

[lesedi]

I agree with the 'he is trying to make her break up with him'.Men are cowards.
But what kind of married man does this? And still has the nerve to expect sex at home? BOLD.

 

[Femmefatal1981]

I don't know the wife...I know the husband. Yes, he wants her to leave. I think he had some type of "near death experience" so now he's not satisfied with keeping the girlfriend on the side. He has started treating her like the main chick in public. Which is how I found out about all this....

 

[awhyley]

Dang. I'm at a loss for words. No words.

 

[Femmefatal1981]

and this man NOT black.

 

[LdyKamz]

So why not just leave and be with the girlfriend. He's doing all this extra stuff to get her to leave when he's practically already gone. I don't get it.

 

[TayMac]

Sounds like he wasn't marriage material in the first place. A fresh tattoo...naah

 

[WhoIAm]

The man has been trying to get her to break up with him.

She didn't because of the whole emotional competition thing with the other woman.

Watch him dump both of them and start fresh with another woman.

And watch him be faithful to the new one.

 

[IslandMummy]

So homegirl is willfully taking an "L" to keep someone else from "winning" when they both lost for vying for fractions of a man in the first place. Bird logic at its finest. Smh

What's understood doesn't need to be explained

 

[Mai Tai]

I would carve that tattoo off of him like Silence of the Lambs then let her have him...Get da fuq on!

 

[GetHappy2014]

I would carve that tattoo off of him like Silence of the Lambs then let her have him...Get da fuq on!

 

[lux10023]

MY PUM PUM WOULD BE SO DRY....wish a mutha would lolol yeah not gonna be able to do it!!!!

 

[mzpurp]

Nah

 

[movingforward13]

So why not just leave and be with the girlfriend. He's doing all this extra stuff to get her to leave when he's practically already gone. I don't get it.

Conflict avoidant

 

[summertimewine]

 

[JerriBlank]

I hate that people feel like they have to take mess like this. I'm too selfish. I don't love anyone like that!

 

[LoveLiLi]

I couldn't tolerate that. I've never dated a man that had a tattoo of a woman's name.

It would be a huge turn off.

 

[awhyley]

So why not just leave and be with the girlfriend. He's doing all this extra stuff to get her to leave when he's practically already gone. I don't get it.

I'm thinking that she wants him to leave first so that he can claim martial property or alienation of affection or something like that. It's guaranteed to be money-related though.