it's March already!!

LOL no... but I am no longer taking in strays so that would make me single by personal choice as of now.

I'm practicing thinking like a man.

For example, as soon as *I* feel like it I'll get married to a hot guy of my choosing even if I'm fat, ugly, broke and have a small weewee.
 
I hope I don't jinx myself, but I think I have met some prospects. Well actually I already know both of them.

Guy One:
I met him this past summer. He expressed interest at that time but I wasn't really feeling him like that. His good friend and my good friend are together so we see each other often. Just last month I decide to give it a shot. Its too soon to really call it but I do see potential.

Guy Two:
We briefly dated about a year and half ago and he contacted me asking if we could start over. When we first met I was recently divorced and he had just ended a serious relationship. We really liked each other but the timing was off. I kind of uncertain about this one but willing to see what happens.
 
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kandake said:
I hope I don't jinx myself, but I think I have met some prospects. Well actually I already know both of them.

Guy One:
I met him this past summer. He expressed interest at that time but I wasn't really feeling him like that. His good friend and my good friend are together so we see each other often. Just last month I decide to give it a shot. Its too soon to really call it but I do see potential.

Guy Two:
We briefly dated about a year and half ago and he contacted me asking if we could start over. When we first met I was recently divorced and he had just ended a serious relationship. We really liked each other but the timing was off. I kind of uncertain about this one but willing to see what happens.
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Keep us posted!!
 
So... I'm realizing that I don't know how to date two people at the same time. Its so stressful for me.

Maybe because I was married and out of the dating game for a while.
 
I had a brief fling w/a guy friend who told me a couple of months ago that he has been interested in me for years...

I tried it out, we dated a little bit, but in the end...I just wasn't feeling it! Plus, he really needs to get his act/life together. He needs to focus more on HIMSELF now instead of me. :yep:

So, I cut it off. :ohwell: I think I did the right thing though. He's a cool guy, so who knows what will happen in the future? But right now, he's not the one for me.

I'm still on the lookout! But to be honest...I'm not really itching to be in a relationship right now! It's like...for the first time in 3 years I'm actually ENJOYING being single! :grin: I have a lot to look forward to this year, as well as numerous opportunities to meet some new men! :grin: :giggle:

So...the future looks bright!

It's only March ladies! Your life can change in a snap once you meet that special someone. I'm telling you...a SNAP!
 
Well, I've only "officially" been back in the dating game for a little less than three weeks. But I've already been out on 4 dates (it would've been 5, but the guy in question had to cancel, no biggie).

The date with Guy #1 was "Meh," the date with Guy #2 was enjoyable but no real sparks, and the dates with Guy #3 (who I've been out with twice) had major sparks. I was supposed to go to a performance by Guy #3 (he's in a band in his spare time), but I'm gonna have to let him know that I can't make it due to a previous engagement (a friend's birthday party occurs around the same time, so I can't make it to both).

Guy #3 may have some potential, but I'm not holding my breath.

Been chatting with a number of suitors on OKCupid :) Also, can't WAIT to move into my new neighborhood - it is a social MECCA here in NYC, so if I don't meet a new guy with potential AT LEAST every couple of weeks, then something's wrong with me...LOL!!!
 
I had to back out of a date this Friday with a very sexy guy. He works at the gym, and he finally decided to approach me. He asked me out. It was cute. He was charming.Then he started talking...He spoke of having 4 abortions "under his belt" and how big his d*ck was. Yikes.
 
I'm swimming in men right now. :drowning:

I've only been single for a short while and I'm feeling like shortage who? I was on a date with one guy 2weeks ago and he went to sing happy birthday with a group of people he knew there and another guy came over to slide me his #. He's currently my front runner. :grin:

I'm taking my time, I still might give my ex another try but for now I'm living it up. I'll say this, there are plenty of good men out there, I meet a new guy everytime I go out!

Get it in ladies!
 
*5+5 said:
I'm swimming in men right now. :drowning:

I've only been single for a short while and I'm feeling like shortage who? I was on a date with one guy 2weeks ago and he went to sing happy birthday with a group of people he knew there and another guy came over to slide me his #. He's currently my front runner. :grin:

I'm taking my time, I still might give my ex another try but for now I'm living it up. I'll say this, there are plenty of good men out there, I meet a new guy everytime I go out!

Get it in ladies!
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O-KAY!? I've met some weirdos but also good guys as well.
 
The guy I've met doesn't seem too interested in me. I'm still trying. I hope this year will be my year to finally get to experience being in a relationship. Good luck ladies.
 
TRUKARISMA said:
have you been out on any dates?
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No, and for two reasons.
1. We just exchanged contact info. and I really don't know anything about him:ohwell:

And

2. He lives like 12 hrs away:wallbash:

But I don't really mind #2 because this will really help me focus on an actual relationship and not rush into anything to physical. Which is what tends to happen:look:

But i'm excited to see what happens. I think I could see myself with him, and it's hot where he lives. So if all goes well...I will have somewhere nice to visit :grin:
 
Nope....

I cut it off with a guy at the end of last year and we kept just having so many disagreements that it was just depressing--and i was really overjoyed when he stopped talking to me and i couldnt have been happier LOL...so now after a 1 1/2 months he is trying to be friends but i just dont trust him and his intentions and i know some of its on my part(because i keep debating starting over with him) but im really trying not to go back to him and deal with all his ish. And again did i mention i dont trust him and he has alot of habits that im not cool with.

I signed up for eharmony.com(yawn)---and i cancelled the renewal of the subscription again boring---it'll expire on Sunday, didn't really meet anyone on their. For plenty of fish i changed my status to only emails and thats it--cuz the tons of emails i was gettin askin for my phone number was annoyin as heck...

I had two guys i was interested in---

Guy #1 he's in a fraternity and thats all he talks about--boring.(yea i know im his Soror but yea for real i dont want to hear about chapter issues and stuff like that)

Guy #2 is 36 or 37 years old and likes to drop and throw out hints...'oh yea i need to take you out'...'oh yea i wish i was going on a trip with you' etc etc..until he pushed my nerves this week with his hint a** ---and im back to basically treatin him like ish and keepin it moving...
 
i'm about to break it off with someone... right before my birthday.
Lucky it wasn't serious.... but... i can say, i was getting attached...
 
Nope, one guy I met a cpl months ago at a QT asked for my number and chatted me up on the way home. He told me to give hiim a call sometime since I had his number. I never did. A couple weeks ago he was blowing my phone up calling out the blue...I honestly didn't remember him until like a week later....chatted for a while...he kept telling me how he was on a budget and when he has money, he loves to (fill in the blank), and how money is tight....um, yeah he still waiting on a call back from me. I don't have time for no broke niglets, sorry...

Another guy gave me his number at a stoplight....he thought I was writing it down, I wasn't. He said he's in the NFL, he throws touchdowns. :lachen: whatev...

I know this is supposed to be a positive thread, sorry, LOL...BTW I'm in ATL, THESE are the dudes I meet......thus, time for a move
 
i am heading to texas next month, so I hope to give you guy a positive report.
I am going to be out and about. If anyone knows any place to meet single guys in austin, let me know.
 
Austin is a great city. You'll like it. Check out the Elephant Room. It's a jazz club on Congress that plays jazz every day. $5 cover on Friday and Saturday nights.
 
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