Ladies,
You're dating someone you really like (nothing serious, just a kiss here and there.) The second time seeing this person, you introduce him to a girlfriend. He extends his hand to greet your friend and exclaims 'wow, she's cute!' about your friend as you're standing by.
How do you feel about that compliment/comment to your friend?
Let's back up though...
It's not about him trying to get with the friends at all it's more about demonstrating that you are noticing another woman other than her! They met virtually btw.
I'd say he could have:
1) Tell her in private or
2) Keep it to himself
I'm confused...erplexed.
Who met virtually?
And if he noticed another woman so what? He didn't lose his sight when he met her.
Did she feel disrespected or is she jealous?
virtually=The couple...
Noticing the other women is not the issue though. Should he have said that? Could he have kept it to himself? How does he think the person he is with MIGHT feel? IDK...
She didn't feel disrespected at all. It's more the friend that felt some kind of way about it....
I agree. Very disrespectful.That's happened to me before and I replied with ''go ask for her number then...''
Then he laughed nervously, and I continued with ''no, I'm serious. Why are you speaking to me? ''
I find that ish extremely offensive. It's not that I'm naive to believe my SO/DH will NEVER find another woman attractive. But it's the lack of respect for me that is unforgivable.
That ish does not fly with me. If you're with me... you're with me. Don't comment on my friends and give them compliments. I'm sorry but I'd be a fool to let my man say that and stand by him.
That is definitely a WTF moment for me... and I'd drop him quickly after that.
It's more the friend that felt some kind of way about it....
He'd of been dropped like an overly expensive cell phone plan.