okange76
Well-Known Member
IMO the request is reasonable but the tone and timing is wrong. He should have worded it differently or made it about them. He should have signed up for the classes himself as well. What do you think?
Hello NW!
We recently got married two years ago but we been together for over 12 years . We met during high school and started dating in university. She has been my rock,we hustled together, she took care of me when I was jobless and penniless, paid the rent,cooked- she never left my side when others did!!
Last year , a friend introduced me to a business, I didn't have the initial deposit needed, and my wife worked so hard, hustled like crazy and dropped some money. Long story short, the deal was successful and we are way better off in hundred folds.
Last week, I asked her to brush and clean herself up by going for etiquette lesson( which I was going to pay for) so she can act and match our new status and she took GREAT offence in it, calling me selfish,ungrateful etc. Even went as far to threaten to divorce me and take everything if I dare leave her!!!
Please am I wrong to suggest that?? Wouldn't you have done the same?
Hello NW!
We recently got married two years ago but we been together for over 12 years . We met during high school and started dating in university. She has been my rock,we hustled together, she took care of me when I was jobless and penniless, paid the rent,cooked- she never left my side when others did!!
Last year , a friend introduced me to a business, I didn't have the initial deposit needed, and my wife worked so hard, hustled like crazy and dropped some money. Long story short, the deal was successful and we are way better off in hundred folds.
Last week, I asked her to brush and clean herself up by going for etiquette lesson( which I was going to pay for) so she can act and match our new status and she took GREAT offence in it, calling me selfish,ungrateful etc. Even went as far to threaten to divorce me and take everything if I dare leave her!!!
Please am I wrong to suggest that?? Wouldn't you have done the same?