Is there a right or wrong way to pray?

[pookaloo83]

I remember hearing somewhere there is a proper way to pray. I didn't know there could be a wrong way. Is this true?

 

[GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I]

What do you mean, prostration? For the person concerned, I'd advise him/her to start by gathering himself and knowing to whom one is addressing the prayer. If one is concerned about the legalism, sure, Jews and Muslims don't pray while on the toilet (lol). I'd just give G-d the respect one would give one's boss, royalty...even more. But open one's heart. You don't have to pray on your knees or with your eyes shut. But people will do what they are taught to do. Just be respectful and talk to him as a Father, which He is.

 

[chicacanella]

Yeah, there is a proper way to pray. Christ outlined it in Matthew I think, but only as a guidline. I chose to copy and paste instead of writing out everything I would've said, plus I would have to consider all the factors too.

http://christianwomentoday.com/prayer/answered.html
By Dr. Muriel Larson

Why do some people get their prayers answered--and I don't? Have you ever wondered that? Have you ever wished that you could have a closer touch with God?
When you have a problem, you may talk with some special Christian about it. "Pray for me," you ask. If anyone can get an answer from God, you figure that person can.
But there's no reason why all Christians can't have the power with God that the Scriptures promise. For the Lord certainly loves every one of His children for whom He paid the supreme sacrifice. If you are His child through faith in Christ, that includes you.
What conditions does God's Word set down for answered prayer? Let's look at them.

1. Repentance is necessary. Second Chronicles 7:14 says, "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land." Obviously sin keeps prayers from getting answered. But did you know that bitterness, resentment, bad temper, anger, and harsh words can come between us and God? The Bible says such things grieve the Holy Spirit. How can we make things right? First John 1:9 says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." When we are cleansed, we can look for answered prayers.
2. Righteousness is necessary. James 5:16-b says, "The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective." Following this statement, God gave us an example of Elijah, whose prayer was answered. Elijah prayed it wouldn't rain, and it didn't rain for over three years! When he prayed for rain, down it came. Righteousness refers to a daily, steady walk with the Lord. We try not to let anything come between us and Him. God had first place in Elijah's heart, as He probably does in the hearts of those we ask for prayer. In their lives we see Christ; when others see Him in us, they'll be asking us for prayer.
3. Forgiveness is necessary. Jesus said that when we pray, if we hold anything against anyone, we are to forgive that person; then God can forgive our trespasses (Mark 11:25). Sherry was sorry for things she had done wrong, so she asked the Lord to forgive her. But when she finished praying, guess what Sherry still held in her heart? Bitterness, anger, hostility...and unforgiveness toward a relative who had hurt her. Then she wondered why she still didn't feel right with God!
   Hard to forgive some people for the way they have hurt us? Sure it is--for us! But I have found it possible to do so by holding such destructive, self-centered feelings up to my Lord and saying, "Lord, take these hurtful things. I don't want them any more. Cleanse me. I just want your peace, joy, and love. I forgive everybody! "When I feel God's peace, I know I can pray.
4. Obedience is necessary. We read in First John 3:22, "...And [we] receive from him anything we ask, because we obey his commands and do what pleases him." Obedience is the trademark of a righteous person. And obedience entails more than just conforming to a nice little set of cut-and-dried rules. It is part of being turned into the Holy Spirit. That's where doing "those things that are pleasing in his sight" comes in.
   God's two great commandments call for love, and they cover every relationship and every circumstance: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind....Love your neighbor as yourself" (Matthew 22:37-39).
   God's command also lie in principles His Word sets forth, such as "So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God" (1 Corinthians 10:31).
   Obedience to God isn't hard when we truly love Him and others.
5. Sincerity is necessary. Jeremiah 29:13 says, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."
6. Agreement is helpful. Jesus said, "Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven."
7. Persistence is helpful. Ephesians 6:18 says, "And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests". With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all saints.
8. Faith is necessary. Hebrews 11:6 says, "And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him." When I'm praying, I often claim the promise that Jesus gave His followers: "Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours" (Mark 11:24).

Do you really believe God can work in the lives of unsaved and backslidden loved one's life in answer to your prayers? Do you believe God can help you work out your problems, help you get a job, pays the bills, get along with cantankerous relatives, co-workers, or neighbors?
Then stand back and watch God work as you pray! It will thrill you!
And here's a great promise you might like to memorize: "Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD, and he will do this" (Psalm 37:4-5).

 

[GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I]

Yeah, there is a proper way to pray. Christ outlined it in Matthew I think, but only as a guidline. I chose to copy and paste instead of writing out everything I would've said, plus I would have to consider all the factors too.

http://christianwomentoday.com/prayer/answered.html
By Dr. Muriel Larson

Why do some people get their prayers answered--and I don't? Have you ever wondered that? Have you ever wished that you could have a closer touch with God?
When you have a problem, you may talk with some special Christian about it. "Pray for me," you ask. If anyone can get an answer from God, you figure that person can.
But there's no reason why all Christians can't have the power with God that the Scriptures promise. For the Lord certainly loves every one of His children for whom He paid the supreme sacrifice. If you are His child through faith in Christ, that includes you.
What conditions does God's Word set down for answered prayer? Let's look at them.

1. Repentance is necessary. Second Chronicles 7:14 says, "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land." Obviously sin keeps prayers from getting answered. But did you know that bitterness, resentment, bad temper, anger, and harsh words can come between us and God? The Bible says such things grieve the Holy Spirit. How can we make things right? First John 1:9 says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." When we are cleansed, we can look for answered prayers.
2. Righteousness is necessary. James 5:16-b says, "The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective." Following this statement, God gave us an example of Elijah, whose prayer was answered. Elijah prayed it wouldn't rain, and it didn't rain for over three years! When he prayed for rain, down it came. Righteousness refers to a daily, steady walk with the Lord. We try not to let anything come between us and Him. God had first place in Elijah's heart, as He probably does in the hearts of those we ask for prayer. In their lives we see Christ; when others see Him in us, they'll be asking us for prayer.
3. Forgiveness is necessary. Jesus said that when we pray, if we hold anything against anyone, we are to forgive that person; then God can forgive our trespasses (Mark 11:25). Sherry was sorry for things she had done wrong, so she asked the Lord to forgive her. But when she finished praying, guess what Sherry still held in her heart? Bitterness, anger, hostility...and unforgiveness toward a relative who had hurt her. Then she wondered why she still didn't feel right with God!
   Hard to forgive some people for the way they have hurt us? Sure it is--for us! But I have found it possible to do so by holding such destructive, self-centered feelings up to my Lord and saying, "Lord, take these hurtful things. I don't want them any more. Cleanse me. I just want your peace, joy, and love. I forgive everybody! "When I feel God's peace, I know I can pray.
4. Obedience is necessary. We read in First John 3:22, "...And [we] receive from him anything we ask, because we obey his commands and do what pleases him." Obedience is the trademark of a righteous person. And obedience entails more than just conforming to a nice little set of cut-and-dried rules. It is part of being turned into the Holy Spirit. That's where doing "those things that are pleasing in his sight" comes in.
   God's two great commandments call for love, and they cover every relationship and every circumstance: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind....Love your neighbor as yourself" (Matthew 22:37-39).
   God's command also lie in principles His Word sets forth, such as "So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God" (1 Corinthians 10:31).
   Obedience to God isn't hard when we truly love Him and others.
5. Sincerity is necessary. Jeremiah 29:13 says, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."
6. Agreement is helpful. Jesus said, "Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven."
7. Persistence is helpful. Ephesians 6:18 says, "And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests". With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all saints.
8. Faith is necessary. Hebrews 11:6 says, "And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him." When I'm praying, I often claim the promise that Jesus gave His followers: "Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours" (Mark 11:24).

Do you really believe God can work in the lives of unsaved and backslidden loved one's life in answer to your prayers? Do you believe God can help you work out your problems, help you get a job, pays the bills, get along with cantankerous relatives, co-workers, or neighbors?
Then stand back and watch God work as you pray! It will thrill you!
And here's a great promise you might like to memorize: "Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD, and he will do this" (Psalm 37:4-5).

This a good outline!

 

[pookaloo83]

Yeah, there is a proper way to pray. Christ outlined it in Matthew I think, but only as a guidline. I chose to copy and paste instead of writing out everything I would've said, plus I would have to consider all the factors too.

http://christianwomentoday.com/prayer/answered.html
By Dr. Muriel Larson

Why do some people get their prayers answered--and I don't? Have you ever wondered that? Have you ever wished that you could have a closer touch with God?
When you have a problem, you may talk with some special Christian about it. "Pray for me," you ask. If anyone can get an answer from God, you figure that person can.
But there's no reason why all Christians can't have the power with God that the Scriptures promise. For the Lord certainly loves every one of His children for whom He paid the supreme sacrifice. If you are His child through faith in Christ, that includes you.

What conditions does God's Word set down for answered prayer? Let's look at them.

1. Repentance is necessary. Second Chronicles 7:14 says, "If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land." Obviously sin keeps prayers from getting answered. But did you know that bitterness, resentment, bad temper, anger, and harsh words can come between us and God? The Bible says such things grieve the Holy Spirit. How can we make things right? First John 1:9 says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." When we are cleansed, we can look for answered prayers.
2. Righteousness is necessary. James 5:16-b says, "The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective." Following this statement, God gave us an example of Elijah, whose prayer was answered. Elijah prayed it wouldn't rain, and it didn't rain for over three years! When he prayed for rain, down it came. Righteousness refers to a daily, steady walk with the Lord. We try not to let anything come between us and Him. God had first place in Elijah's heart, as He probably does in the hearts of those we ask for prayer. In their lives we see Christ; when others see Him in us, they'll be asking us for prayer.
3. Forgiveness is necessary. Jesus said that when we pray, if we hold anything against anyone, we are to forgive that person; then God can forgive our trespasses (Mark 11:25). Sherry was sorry for things she had done wrong, so she asked the Lord to forgive her. But when she finished praying, guess what Sherry still held in her heart? Bitterness, anger, hostility...and unforgiveness toward a relative who had hurt her. Then she wondered why she still didn't feel right with God!
   Hard to forgive some people for the way they have hurt us? Sure it is--for us! But I have found it possible to do so by holding such destructive, self-centered feelings up to my Lord and saying, "Lord, take these hurtful things. I don't want them any more. Cleanse me. I just want your peace, joy, and love. I forgive everybody! "When I feel God's peace, I know I can pray.
4. Obedience is necessary. We read in First John 3:22, "...And [we] receive from him anything we ask, because we obey his commands and do what pleases him." Obedience is the trademark of a righteous person. And obedience entails more than just conforming to a nice little set of cut-and-dried rules. It is part of being turned into the Holy Spirit. That's where doing "those things that are pleasing in his sight" comes in.
   God's two great commandments call for love, and they cover every relationship and every circumstance: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind....Love your neighbor as yourself" (Matthew 22:37-39).
   God's command also lie in principles His Word sets forth, such as "So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God" (1 Corinthians 10:31).
   Obedience to God isn't hard when we truly love Him and others.
5. Sincerity is necessary. Jeremiah 29:13 says, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."
6. Agreement is helpful. Jesus said, "Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven."
7. Persistence is helpful. Ephesians 6:18 says, "And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests". With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all saints.
8. Faith is necessary. Hebrews 11:6 says, "And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him." When I'm praying, I often claim the promise that Jesus gave His followers: "Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours" (Mark 11:24).

Do you really believe God can work in the lives of unsaved and backslidden loved one's life in answer to your prayers? Do you believe God can help you work out your problems, help you get a job, pays the bills, get along with cantankerous relatives, co-workers, or neighbors?
Then stand back and watch God work as you pray! It will thrill you!
And here's a great promise you might like to memorize: "Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD, and he will do this" (Psalm 37:4-5).

This was perfect! Thanks!

 

[MzTami]

Pastor mentioned this in church two Sundays ago...He said that even though you don't know how to pray that GOD knows what you are trying to say even before you open your mouth. Something about God understanding your spirit..

 

[BrightCurls]

I always feel convicted if I do not enter the Lord's presence with praise. Do any of you just start praying or do you praise Him first. BTW.. I am a newbie to the LHCF boards
and this is my first post. I really love the deep discussions about faith on the Christian board.

 

[PinkPebbles]

I always feel convicted if I do not enter the Lord's presence with praise. Do any of you just start praying or do you praise Him first. BTW.. I am a newbie to the LHCF boards
and this is my first post. I really love the deep discussions about faith on the Christian board.

I love to enter the Lord's presence with praise and thanksgiving first...most of the time it eliminates my problems and issues that I wanted to take before the Lord.

However, there are times when I have to go before the Lord and reveal my heart without praise. By the time I'm finish I feel a sense of peace that leads me into praise and worship.

Overall, the Lord wants us to come to Him as we are and yield to the spirit of God. This will allow the Lord to do a complete work in us.

 

[GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I]

I always feel convicted if I do not enter the Lord's presence with praise. Do any of you just start praying or do you praise Him first. BTW.. I am a newbie to the LHCF boards
and this is my first post. I really love the deep discussions about faith on the Christian board.

We have a host of set prayers that have been handed down through the centuries. I usually start there....then I speak like He's another person in the room lol.

 

[Misshairdiva]

I pray to God all day. I pray while I am cleaning my house, while I am working in my yard. I dont think that prayer is just kneeling, folding your hands and closing your eyes. Alot of times I'll be praying in the shower or while driving in the car.