Wrong attitudes toward marriage... Matthew 5:31-32
God doesn't want everyone to marry... Matthew 19:10-12
10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. 11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given. 12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
I thought the first verses had to do with Moses (and them ) putting away their wives for the wrong reason. I thought it was part of the previous verses. But 12 shows where God says that not everyone will be married.
Don't avoid marriage for the wrong reasons... Matthew 19:12
12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.
I already explained my thoughts on this one. He says nothing about a woman wanting to marry a eunuch but didn't.
Jesus speaks about the purpose of marriage... Mark 10:2,5-9
2 And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife?
this says nothing about marriage, they just asked a question. It is like hearing half of a story. The Pharisees are still asking about divorce. But the last part did make sense. 5 And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. 6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. 7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; 8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. 9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
Paul's lessons about marriage... 1 Corinthians 7:7,32-34,38
Don't assume you married the wrong person... 1 Corinthians 7:17
17 But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches.
This sounds like something was left out. On it's own it doesn't make sense, in the context of marrying the wrong person. But when I read the scriptures above it, it made a little bit more sense. Although this is something I will get more clarification on.
1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 6 But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment. 7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. 8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. 9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. 10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. 12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. 15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace. 16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?
OFF TOPIC:
Do verses 8 and 9 say that God really didn't want people to get married? Or is he talking about people who are widowed and those who are not virigins(had premarital sex)? So does this mean, that ideally if you were not a virgin you could not get married?
Problems that marriage will not solve... 1 Corinthians 7:28
this one made sense. It said that even though you are married, it doesn't mean you won't have problems with the flesh.
How should a man love his wife?... Ephesians 5:25-33; 1 Peter 3:7
This one made sense too.
Hope these scriptures help in some kind of way. Make sure you read some commentaries on these passages as well to get a better understanding. God bless!