This may have been discussed before but I'd like to see what you all think.
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I am not married although I would like to be one day. And lately it has crossed my mind that "love" (the butterflies, the sweet, excited feeling you get) may not be enough to sustain a marriage. I believe as you mature, your needs and wants in a relationship mature as well... and it becomes your responsibility to communicate that to your partner.
My question is... is 'love' enough to sustain a marriage? We have heard the old adage 'love conquers all'... and some may subscribe to that. But a good credit score, a plan in life, being sexually compatible, able to communicate well, emotionally/spiritually in tune, financially responsible.. .all of those characteristics come into play. A man could want to offer you the world but if he doesn't have his LIFE in order... then how could that possibly help in the parameters of marriage?
This also leads into the issue of timing (i.e. when a man is ready to be married and has all of his 'ducks' per se, in a row, he will marry the first woman who may come along who can meet his needs)....
Please weigh in with your own opinion...
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I am not married although I would like to be one day. And lately it has crossed my mind that "love" (the butterflies, the sweet, excited feeling you get) may not be enough to sustain a marriage. I believe as you mature, your needs and wants in a relationship mature as well... and it becomes your responsibility to communicate that to your partner.
My question is... is 'love' enough to sustain a marriage? We have heard the old adage 'love conquers all'... and some may subscribe to that. But a good credit score, a plan in life, being sexually compatible, able to communicate well, emotionally/spiritually in tune, financially responsible.. .all of those characteristics come into play. A man could want to offer you the world but if he doesn't have his LIFE in order... then how could that possibly help in the parameters of marriage?
This also leads into the issue of timing (i.e. when a man is ready to be married and has all of his 'ducks' per se, in a row, he will marry the first woman who may come along who can meet his needs)....
Please weigh in with your own opinion...