PersuasiveBeauty
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Is it wrong to ask your boyfriend about who he has slept with in the past? Before you all even met and knew each other existed?
Sooooo if he doesn't want to talk about it. Do I drop it? Like is it his "right" to keep his past private?
Yes it's his right to keep his past in the past. I never ask, but if I did and he didn't divulge, I would drop it.
Just curious, but do you feel you 'need' to know, or you just want to know? What would you do with the information?
I want to know her name. If I ever met her. What does she look like. How old was she? Did you take her out often? Have you ever bought her gifts? Where'd you all have sex?
Seriously?
Not only would I not tell, I'll be debating if I even wanna continue with you.
Why in the world do you need all those details?
I want to know her name. If I ever met her. What does she look like. How old was she? Did you take her out often? Have you ever bought her gifts? Where'd you all have sex?
I can understand you wanting to know to get a pattern of his sexual habits, but it sounds as if you're going to use it against him in the long run. You'll be comparing your relationship to those in his past...
This reeks of insecurity.
I want to know her name. If I ever met her. What does she look like. How old was she? Did you take her out often? Have you ever bought her gifts? Where'd you all have sex?
I can understand you wanting to know to get a pattern of his sexual habits, but it sounds as if you're going to use it against him in the long run. You'll be comparing your relationship to those in his past...
This reeks of insecurity.
I want to know her name. If I ever met her. What does she look like. How old was she? Did you take her out often? Have you ever bought her gifts? Where'd you all have sex?
OP... It sounds like you want to know more about the woman then his sexual conduct so you can compare yourself to her and somehow make yourself miserable. Why would you do that to yourself?
What his sexual habits are, his views on contraception, and his sexual health are what's most important...
I want to know her name. If I ever met her. What does she look like. How old was she? Did you take her out often? Have you ever bought her gifts? Where'd you all have sex?
I want to know her name. If I ever met her. What does she look like. How old was she? Did you take her out often? Have you ever bought her gifts? Where'd you all have sex?
I hope she was joking...
To add to your post, OP make sure you're ready for the answers. Like they say "If you go digging..."