Irritated??

loolalooh

loolalooh

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You've been seeing a guy for three weeks. He's introduced you to his friends as a "friend". Would you be irritated? What about if he was still taking other women's numbers? After three weeks of chilling and him expressing that he's serious and wants to get to know u, what would you require?
 
When I was younger, it would have bothered me. Now, it wouldn't bother me at all. Three weeks is a very short period of time.I would want to get to know that person as well (much longer than 3 weeks) before they got bumped up to boyfriend status.

During that time period I'd still be taking men's numbers as well. Until we have that talk about us being official (after we've known each other longer), I'm doing me and he can do him.

Keep in mind, I'm a little more ruthless these days than I used to be.
 
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I wouldn't be irritated at all. I subscribe to the we aren't official UNTIL we sit down and have the conversation to make it official. That way everyone is on the same page.

I've seen too many women thinking they were in a relationship ONLY to have the man say, "I never said."
 
When I was single I dated multiple men at once so I definitely didn't want anyone calling me girlfriend unless we had discussed being exclusive. I wouldn't get irritated, I would go find some other "friends".
 
the only way it would irritate me is if he was taking other women's numbers in front of me. 3 weeks isn't long enough for either party to decide they want to make a commitment
 
I prefer him to call me a friend than a girlfriend after 3 weeks of dating. Calling me something else would let me think he's crazy.
 
That's normal for me. Everything seems fine.

If you wanna be official, say something. (Although I think 3 wks is a lil soon) Or if you're one of those women who only want the man to initiate anything having to do with the relationship at all...then I guess you're stuck waiting for him to say something :giggle:

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3 weeks is a bit soon for me. I believe in taking things slow. I would not get concerned until around 3 months.

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shockolate said:
I prefer him to call me a friend than a girlfriend after 3 weeks of dating. Calling me something else would let me think he's crazy.
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Yeah. This happened to me a couple years ago. He introduced me as his GF after two weeks or so and I headed for the hills.

Don't be offended, OP.
 
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