TinyBlu
Well-Known Member
You know I have to share my constant struggles in the dating game and get your valuable input. Here's the latest... I tried as hard as I could to give the prissy guy (the knife and fork sandwich eating guy) a second chance, but we never made it to a second date. A few more phone conversations confirmed that watching paint dry would be more exciting than hanging out with him.
So... I quite unexpectedly met another guy and things seemed to go well... at first. We actually met on an elevator during one of my many business trips. We struck up a casual conversation which turned into a drink invite later that evening after a business dinner. That went well, so he offered to take me to lunch the next day before we both had to go back to our respective home bases. Lunch was nice. We had a nice vibe and agreed to stay in touch. Here it comes...
Over the weekend I got a few "I'm Glad We Met" texts which I responded to with a me too. That was Friday. By Sunday, it was "I can't stop thinking about you..." which at first was kinda sweet, but by the 5th time he said it, red flags started going up.
Then there's the calling. I will have about 3 missed calls from him within a two hour period. He will call. If he doesn't get an answer, he will call back in about 1/2 hour. If no answer again, he will wait and call about an hour later. I am not a phone screener, but I am busy, and I have more important things to do besides talk on the phone all day. He usually doesn't leave a message until about the third unanswered call which is usually a "Just wanted to hear your voice" type thing.
If we had known each other a while, that might make me warm and fuzzy, but this worries me! Especially since he called about 6 times yesterday before I could get to him (Ummm... I do work!). The clincher came when he said he was going to forward me his resume because he wants to move closer to me!!! WTH????
Just to clarify: I didn't even KISS this guy during the two outings we had, and now he wants to move closer to me? Can we say crazy...deranged...
I have been out of the game for a minute, but this guy sounds a wee bit psycho. Thoughts?
So... I quite unexpectedly met another guy and things seemed to go well... at first. We actually met on an elevator during one of my many business trips. We struck up a casual conversation which turned into a drink invite later that evening after a business dinner. That went well, so he offered to take me to lunch the next day before we both had to go back to our respective home bases. Lunch was nice. We had a nice vibe and agreed to stay in touch. Here it comes...
Over the weekend I got a few "I'm Glad We Met" texts which I responded to with a me too. That was Friday. By Sunday, it was "I can't stop thinking about you..." which at first was kinda sweet, but by the 5th time he said it, red flags started going up.
Then there's the calling. I will have about 3 missed calls from him within a two hour period. He will call. If he doesn't get an answer, he will call back in about 1/2 hour. If no answer again, he will wait and call about an hour later. I am not a phone screener, but I am busy, and I have more important things to do besides talk on the phone all day. He usually doesn't leave a message until about the third unanswered call which is usually a "Just wanted to hear your voice" type thing.
If we had known each other a while, that might make me warm and fuzzy, but this worries me! Especially since he called about 6 times yesterday before I could get to him (Ummm... I do work!). The clincher came when he said he was going to forward me his resume because he wants to move closer to me!!! WTH????
Just to clarify: I didn't even KISS this guy during the two outings we had, and now he wants to move closer to me? Can we say crazy...deranged...
I have been out of the game for a minute, but this guy sounds a wee bit psycho. Thoughts?