Interacial dating handbook
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FlowerHair
Reclaiming my time
Thanks, that was an interesting read...
I have to admit I laughed out loud a couple of times
Page 8 had me rolling!! LOL!! "painting your children the color of your choice" etc
I have to admit I laughed out loud a couple of times
Page 8 had me rolling!! LOL!! "painting your children the color of your choice" etc
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tocktick
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Eww yet LMAO @ all the references to stirring cream into coffee. WTF. Admittedly, I'm giving this "handbook" the side-eye. I don't have an issue with IRR (I'd be a hypocrite if I did), btw. I think people make dating other races waaay more complicated than need be and if someone is genuinely interested in dating IRR they wouldn't need this to justify their choices. If you were never attracted to white men in the first place and "pink peen" turns you off, don't play yourself because you're tired of being single and/or have been unsatisfied by your black exes (and think the reason is down to race).
If one's reasons for dating IR is to increase their chances of dating good men, then one would still be limiting themselves by focusing solely on snagging a white man. Especially as they'd be ignoring good non-white men (including blacks) and also because those white men open to dating IRR are also probably also interested in Latinas, Asians etc. Therefore, if a BW really thinks that her odds will be better because the author says eligible BM treat BW as "standbys" then she probably wouldn't fare much better by just checking for WM since their choices are not limited to BW either. Arguably, they have more choice than BM. Imo, to avoid being a "harem-girl"/on standby, one needs to up their standards first before thinking WM is the solution. If you're the type of accept nonsense, you'll accept it from WM too.
If one's reasons for dating IR is to increase their chances of dating good men, then one would still be limiting themselves by focusing solely on snagging a white man. Especially as they'd be ignoring good non-white men (including blacks) and also because those white men open to dating IRR are also probably also interested in Latinas, Asians etc. Therefore, if a BW really thinks that her odds will be better because the author says eligible BM treat BW as "standbys" then she probably wouldn't fare much better by just checking for WM since their choices are not limited to BW either. Arguably, they have more choice than BM. Imo, to avoid being a "harem-girl"/on standby, one needs to up their standards first before thinking WM is the solution. If you're the type of accept nonsense, you'll accept it from WM too.
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