In Love With Two People

[n_lucky]

What are you all's opinion of this quote by Johnny Depp:


"If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldnt have fallen for the second"

 

[Windsy]

Sounds like he is he saying choose the one you cheated with in my opinion.

 

[Melody.Monroe]

I think it is cute...not necessarily true. I don't think I can be inlove with two people at ince but I have loved 2 men at once. There is always some one you love more out of the two.....

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[MixedBerry]

I think it is cute...not necessarily true. I don't think I can be inlove with two people at ince but I have loved 2 men at once. There is always some one you love more out of the two.....

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??? What do you mean? Are you simply just speakin in terms of in love VS just loving someone??? Thanks

 

[ChasingBliss]

The saying may make sense on the surface I guess...but if you fell in love with the second, then there will likely be another and another and then another...so I guess just be a serial monogamist, eh?

 

[Melody.Monroe]

??? What do you mean? Are you simply just speakin in terms of in love VS just loving someone??? Thanks

Right. There is a difference between being IN LOVE and LOVING someone. You can love someone all day long, care about them - don't want to see harm come their way. Like to spend time - even may be romatically and attractively involved but you are not IN LOVE with them. Your heart doesnt yearn for them. When you are inlove, you pray for them so much. You want to see them all the time. You feel like losing them will take your breath away. You know IN LOVE.

Such a big big difference and I know I cant be in love with two men at the same time...I don't think my heart could handle that.

 

[glamchick84]

i say leave them both, because you have already deceived them already. If you have a conscience this wouldn't sit well with you lol just my opinion.

 

[onyxdreams]

I think you should leave them both alone because you have issues committing.Johnny Depp and the entertainment lifestyle he LEDs may very well live the life he describes,however my opinion to love two people tells more about the person in the middle then the first lover verses the second lover.

 

[calmsensual1]

Don't do what the celebrities do. Their relationships hardly ever last.

 

[SerenavanderWoodsen]

Interesting.Never thought about it that way lol.

 

[Ganjababy]

You definitely can love two people at the same.


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[butter_pecan]

I'm with neither guy (and haven't been for a while because I needed to not be), but I'm in this predicament. I'm starting to think that I'm IN LOVE with one and LOVE the other, though. Like Melody.Monroe said.

 

[Ganjababy]

I don't think that being in love with 2 people is a deception. One cannot help ones feelings. Though, one does have control over ones actions.

The important thing for me is that I never love a man more than I love myself (unless it was someone I gave birth to).

So, if I was in a position where I was in love with 2 people, I would choose the person who I felt was a better match for me and the life I want.



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[SerenavanderWoodsen]

I've never been madly in love with two people but I have been madly in love with one and mildy in love with another. It turned out that two guys know each other so I had to stay away from the one I mildly loved in order to preserve the relationship with the one I madly loved. I didn't know they knew each other till later on and it was unbelievably nerve wracking, mainly because I was afraid of losing the one I loved more. I married the guy I was madly in love with

I really don't see how it's possible to be MADLY in love with two people at the same time. It goes against what the essence of being in love which is centering your heart on person.