Im Gonna Kill My SO If.......

[LuvlyRain3]

He doesnt stop touching my curls!!!! Ok here it goes. I BCd about two months ago and at first my SO hated it, but since its been growing out and my natural curls have started showing he cant keep his hands out of my head.

Now I know for some girls this wouldnt seem like a problem but the thing about curls is if you play with them they frizz. Im always trying different things to define my curls and now that Ive finally got it down pack I want to show them off.

I did my WnG today before we went to the beach and he spent the whole day playing with my curls and messing them up. I just came about an hour ago and looked in the mirror. I went from looking like a curly diva to looking like buckwheeds little sister

I love him and I love that he loves my curls. Whats a girl to do??

 

[Sasha299]

Girl, I hear you! My family thinks its open season when they see my fresh W&G and then when it is done it looks like a hot mess so they say - you really should do something about your hair.

 

[JuiceMobsta]

Embrace the frizz...

 

[hopeful]

It's kinda cute but annoying too. He'd just have to find something else to play with.

 

[LuvlyRain3]

Girl, I hear you! My family thinks its open season when they see my fresh W&G and then when it is done it looks like a hot mess so they say - you really should do something about your hair.

See this is how people end up losing a finger or two

Embrace the frizz...

It's kinda cute but annoying too. He'd just have to find something else to play with.

I want to say that but i dont want him to think i dont want him to touch my hair at all. I cant live without his scalp massages

 

[SingBrina]

Awwww all I gotta say is "I LOVE IT!"

 

[DDTexlaxed]

Enjoy it. Come on, you got to enjoy the moment.

 

[mzteaze]

I don't mind the occasion hand from an SO....on the other hand, I hate the unannounced hand just mushing around in my hair. Yes, I already know its sooo soft, Mom.

 

[LuvlyRain3]

I don't mind the occasion hand from an SO....on the other hand, I hate the unannounced hand just mushing around in my hair. Yes, I already know its sooo soft, Mom.

If i dont know what to do about my SO i definitely wouldnt know how to handle a parent.

 

[LuvlyRain3]

Enjoy it. Come on, you got to enjoy the moment.

Girl the moment is every 5 to 10 minutes. He better leave me alone

 

[Kiki0130]

Girl, you must be doing something right to have such
touchable hair.

I'm thinking, since you love him in your hair for massages,
maybe you could tell him something like what you just
shared here... only without the head banging lol

Let him know how much you love it when he's in your
hair giving those awesome massages. It's just that
when he's doing random hair passes, it's just messing
up the hairdo you worked to create causing frizziness.
And until you learn how to keep the frizzies away, would
it be too much to ask if he would ask if it's alright
to play in your hair?

Now, here's the thing -- you'll probably never solve the
frizzy problem and he'll get into the habit of asking your
permission.

I don't know...what do you think?

 

[DDTexlaxed]

Girl the moment is every 5 to 10 minutes. He better leave me alone

You're so funny!

 

[LuvlyRain3]

Girl, you must be doing something right to have such
touchable hair.

I'm thinking, since you love him in your hair for massages,
maybe you could tell him something like what you just
shared here... only without the head banging lol

Let him know how much you love it when he's in your
hair giving those awesome massages. It's just that
when he's doing random hair passes, it's just messing
up the hairdo you worked to create causing frizziness.
And until you learn how to keep the frizzies away, would
it be too much to ask if he would ask if it's alright
to play in your hair?

Now, here's the thing -- you'll probably never solve the
frizzy problem and he'll get into the habit of asking your
permission.

I don't know...what do you think?

Men are just so sensitive. so figuring out the right way to say it is kinda hard. but you gave me a good place to start. I just have to switch your words up a little because he knows im not that nice

 

[Kiki0130]

Men are just so sensitive. so figuring out the right way to say it is kinda hard. but you gave me a good place to start. I just have to switch your words up a little because he knows im not that nice

hahahahaha, TOO FUNNY!!

Yep, I know what you mean. And I know you'll find the words lol

 

[LuvlyRain3]

hahahahaha, TOO FUNNY!!

Yep, I know what you mean. And I know you'll find the words lol

thanks girl

 

[brucebettye]

I like that my husband plays in my hair. He never did it before and I like it. That lets me know he likes my hair.

 

[LuvlyRain3]

It didnt bother me that much when i was relaxed but when you natural it can really mess up your do

 

[southerncitygirl]

convince him that he can play in it by massaging your scalp at night before bed or as a pre-poo treatment before washing.