I\'m going to learn to self relax if it KILLS me...
well, i had a HORRIBLE relaxing experiene yesterday. after waiting nearly 16 weeks to retouch i'm still at the same lengh,maybe even a little bit shorter(eta, ok it IS shorter
). my stupid good for nothing bleep bleep bleep of a hairdresser cut my hair when i told her a$$ not to. i gained two inches and she "trimmed" two inches. and the thing is i told her a$$ not to freaking cut my hair. this is what happened.... she finished washing the conditioner out of my hair and sat me down and was starting to detangle my hair. why oh why did her monkey a$$ use the smallest freaking tooth comb she could find??? then she goes to say how long my hair is and is bragging to her customers about how she's been doing my hair for years giving herself all the credit for why my hair is long yet she failed to mention how while she's been doing my hair i've been stuck at the same length for severallll years. it's only been recently when i started taking care of my hair and not going to her that my hair has gotten much longer,(i only go for retouch b/c she's so cheap).so as she's pulling/yanking/ripping out my hair she says how i should come back next week so she can cut my hair to even it out so she can take pics to show her customers.the whole time i'm thinking to myself "yeah right"
. next thing i know i see her grab the scissors and i pull my head back and i say "no dont cut my hair" she gets AGITATED, THE WITCH GETS AGITATED! AND GRABS MY HEAD BACK AND SAYS "I'M NOT CUTTING IT,I'M JUST CUTTING OFF THE DEAD ENDS" AND STARTS SNIPPING. I couldnt beleive it!!!!!!!!!! i was sooo upset. when i came home and was telling the story to my mom she looked at me crazy and said i'm making a big deal over nothing b/c my hair is still long. THAT'S NOT THE FREAKING POINT!!! of course i didnt say it all crazy like that to her. but she jsut didnt understand. the point is i told her a$$ no, i even told her before we started that i trim my own hair. she took it upon herself to do whatever the hell she wanted. and worse she ripped out alot of hair trying to detangle it. well, as of now i've gotten over it.i'm still a little sad but i'll survive. the only good thing that came out of this is that my ends look neater now and the cut was kinda blunt, even thought i loved the deep u i had.oh yeah, i used elasta qp mild relaxer which was wonderful. it straightened out my hair perfectly, not too straight and didnt burn at all.so from now i'll be self relaxing. after seeing hiza's album as well as elecengnr(sp) who are self relaxers i feel condifent that it'll be ok. welll, thanks for listening, sorry it was so long but i feel much better.btw my hair would have been at or pretty close to elbow length which is my goal.
i havent put pics up yet, i dont see the point. i've made no progress and i liked the way my hair looked before with the deep u as oppose to now.
eta: ok i lied, i just added pics
well, i had a HORRIBLE relaxing experiene yesterday. after waiting nearly 16 weeks to retouch i'm still at the same lengh,maybe even a little bit shorter(eta, ok it IS shorter
i havent put pics up yet, i dont see the point. i've made no progress and i liked the way my hair looked before with the deep u as oppose to now.
eta: ok i lied, i just added pics
