I am relaxed, my hair loved the caribbean climate and i wore it flat ironed. It was cute the entire time i was in the bahamas, Puerto Rico and st. Maarten. I washed it once, reflat-ironed it before we went out to formal dinner. Still cute, curls blowing in the wind! I did water sports, snorkeled etc. My husband doesn't like braids, weaves or wigs. When we went to Brazil, I found a shop down there, and they blew out my hair silky straight. Lasted most of the week.