You too? And some of you ladies are going through the same thing! Well so am I! I've been so tempted to create a thread about it, but it's only been 4 months since I did the BC and I kind of felt like maybe I just can't make up my mind or something.
I've tried pressing, but although I get it bone straight (I've done this twice this year) the heat from using the straightening comb just irritates my scalp so bad! I broke down and called my old stylist and she mentioned texturizing. She also said she uses a tourmaline iron and maybe that would be better. She also said that only about 10% of her clients are relaxed now, so that kind of helps me to hang in there. I've been looking at naturals who grew their hair long and texlaxed lately and that's been pretty inspiring.
Your hair is very long though, so I guess maybe braids would help you or a wig. I may try braids.
Whew this is long! Sorry to hi-jack your thread! Just had to vent myself. Thank you for creating this!