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if you didnt make your goal this year?

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deep conditioning once or twice a week with heat is key for me.

detangling with a COMB once a week.

i can not skip treatments and cowash only and not comb my hair for more than a week while i am transitioning. i shed too much and that shed hair combined with two textures equals disaster waiting to happen. i'm lucky i didn't have a major setback. i learned my lesson.......


Yep, currently recovering from this. Just finger detangling and the occasional comb was fine before transitioning/doing such a long stretch (I haven't 100% committed yet). I can't do that now. I figure that at this point, the amount of hair I lose from regularly using a comb may be more than a finger detangle, but it's still less than the hair I lose when dealing with knots.

That's my latest little set back that's keeping me from fully reaching my goal. My other one is just neglecting my hair. I have so much going on that the last thing I ever feel like doing is washing, protein treatment, DC, detangling, and styling. I'm still working on simplifying my regimen so I can spend less time on my hair without it suffering. Oh, and sometimes I'm just bored with my hair and don't feel like dealing with it. :look: That's pretty much why I'm considering transitioning.

I also discovered I can't do buns or ponytails like I used to. Too many tangles even when I use a comb. Now I need a new quick go to protective style.



Between all of this new growth and texlaxed hair, I have a lot of shrinkage. I haven't flat ironed in over a year so if it's worn out it's curly (braid outs). The henna really weighed my hair down tonight so I could see my length after so long. Some of my stands are very close to MBL and my goal for the year was full BSL. If only I didn't endure so much breakage and have to trim I'd be full BSL (my goal for the year) and headed for MBL (overall goal) now. Oh well, there's next year.
 
I had to trim quite a few times this summer after I relaxed my hair. I also notice my hair is still dry which isn't a good thing. I am using a sulfur mix now and hopefully I will get some growth and retain it. Also I feel Im not using the right growth supplements internally. I used biotin and msm for years no growth on my head. Hoping for APL for next year.
 
refused to give myself the trim I needed
was neglecting protein

Im about half an inch from apl (my goal for this year) so Im hoping I make it by years end
 
My number one problem this year: LAZINESS. I could get an award for that.

Laziness + fear of headaches = hair out 100% of time uncombed --> tangle city --> breakage.

I also noticed, that I have quite a bit of hidden damage, and I only see it when my hair is completely straight (which is hardly ever). I've been kind of pretending that I didn't discover that lol. Hoping to go back to my weekly routine of wash/condition/detangle/bread/leave till next washday.
 
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