if she didn't want to do it..

[candibaby]

if she didn\'t want to do it..

Okay so I have been talking about getting cornrows for a long time now, (first time using extensions) and my friend just so happens to be able to braid. In the beginning of May she said she would do it. Well when the day came, she left and went "riding around" all day long -- never braided my hair. I let that one go, I never asked her to do it again, until last week. I asked her what she was doing last Sunday, she said she had NO plans. Then when Sunday came, she left with her sister -- never braided my hair then said she would do it on Wednesday. Low and Behold, here is Wednesday and the

left this morning with her sister, went home, and instead of braiding my hair then, proceeds to leave again. She said "oh i'll still do your hair for you before it gets too late". What is her definition of "too late"? It'll take like what, 3 hours? (guessing) .. and it's almost 7 right now. I'm not gonna be running around in the middle of the night because of her.

I'm saying, if she didn't want to braid my hair she didn't have to keep saying she would if she was gonna leave. I now know I can't depend on her

to do anything for me, and the next time I talk to her I will make sure to tell her that the next time she needs me to do something for her, I'll be sure to do her the way she just did me.

She better be so glad the girl down the street from me is home and will braid my hair tomorrow, because she definetly would have gotten cursed out. YES IT'S THAT SERIOUS. I'm going to Tennessee on Friday, and need my hair done.

I'm just so

mad that she did that crap to me, but whenever she needs me I'm THERE. I wouldn't be so mad if this wasnt about my hair. The worst thing you could do to me is

with my hair.

 

[AnnDriena_]

Re: if she didn\'t want to do it..

Some people are just ghetto like that. My cousins friend got her hair braided and the girl was taking breaks to eat and then wanted the friends husband to go pick up her daughter. All in all a job that should've taken 3 hours took over 6. Even though she isn't professional per se, she was getting paid and she did agree to do it. some people don't know what consideration is.

 

[AllAboutTheHair]

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Girl, I completely feel you. I HAD (keyword) a friend like that in college. You know the old saying "with friends like that, who needs robbers and street thugs to take your money and beat you up because you wouldn't give them your super-sized fries along with the coke". LOL, let her know she was wrong for what she did (calmly) and simply dismiss her. That what I would do because I am so cool

 

[candibaby]

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I know! That's what makes me so mad. She doesn't HAVE to do anything, every time she's left it was to go somewhere because her SISTER had to do something, not her. She should have stayed her butt at home and done what she said she would do. She better not ever try to get a real job, she'll be fired within a week.

 

[candibaby]

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AllAboutTheHair said:
Girl, I completely feel you. I HAD (keyword) a friend like that in college. You know the old saying "with friends like that, who needs robbers and street thugs to take your money and beat you up because you wouldn't give them your super-sized fries along with the coke". LOL, let her know she was wrong for what she did (calmly) and simply dismiss her. That what I would do because I am so cool

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I've never heard that before!

 

[cutebajangirl]

Re: if she didn\'t want to do it..

I wouldn't say anything to her. I'd just go get my hair done and let her see it. Then when she asks you to do something for her, just look at her like she is stupid.

 

[simplycee]

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Did you offer to pay her? Maybe she would have been more available for a few $$$$. I wouldn't ask her again. She might actually do it and jack your hair up outta spite. Maybe this was a blessing.

 

[candibaby]

Re: if she didn\'t want to do it..

maybe it was, yes i was going to pay her. she called me 2 hours ago like "do you still want me to do your hair" i told her i already had it done, even though i'm not getting it done until tomorrow.

 

[kitchen_tician]

Re: if she didn\'t want to do it..

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cutebajangirl said:
I wouldn't say anything to her. I'd just go get my hair done and let her see it. Then when she asks you to do something for her, just look at her like she is stupid.

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DITTO!!! and make sure you slap her with a fish after she asks you for something

 

[candibaby]

Re: if she didn\'t want to do it..

i'm mad you said fish! lol

 

[kitchen_tician]

Re: if she didn\'t want to do it..

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candibaby said:
i'm mad you said fish! lol

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[iwantlongerhair]

Re: if she didn\'t want to do it..

I understand how mad you are, I hate when people act like that like they are the best braiders in the country or something.

 

[Teshila]

Re: if she didn\'t want to do it..

This makes me mad. I had a friend who got her little sister to do my hair. I was willing to pay her salon price and everything (trying to look out for her, even though her skills were not salon caliber). This *****, after having me wait all day, sat me down and braided four single braids in the back and then said she had to go. Needless to say, she ended up making up some excuse as to why she couldnt finish my hair. I found someone else to do it, but that was really trifling of her.

 

[patience]

Re: if she didn\'t want to do it..

I can understand you being upset, but seriously, is it REALLY worth your energy? Life is sooo much more important to be spending major energy on minor issues. Also, you can use this opportunity, yes-that's what it is, to learn to braid your own hair. That way, you won't have to depend on someone else to do it for you.

As for ole' girl, state your peace and let it be. As the saying goes, "what goes around, comes around"...she'll get what's coming her way in due time.

 

[candibaby]

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Yeah, I know it wasn't really worth all the energy that I gave it, but I was mad. I'm over it now because I had the other girl braid my hair earlier, and it's cute! I haven't talked to my friend and she doesnt have to worry about me EVER asking her to do my hair. I'm actually happy I went to Britney because she hooked my hair up! They're tight but she didn't pull on my edge. She even loosened some because she thought they looked too tight.

As for braiding my own hair.. I can't even braid someone elses! (i can do box braids, but not cornrows) I know that's sad.. lol.

 

[chewy]

Re: if she didn\'t want to do it..

I wouldn't knowingly want anyone in my head who didn't want to be there. One neice used to braid my hair when she felt she could be doing other things and I could just hear my hair snap, crackle and pop as she hurriedly braided it then pull my precious ends out of hair she'd already braided.

If I were you,I'd let her sister have her permanently!

 

[candibaby]

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i'm sorry you went through that chewy.