...god i wish i was coming home to u and we could make love for hours....i want u so much..
Keep in mind it was sent to a 28 year old woman,single with history with him .
What would be your response to this?
I didn't pay attention to the bolded...
Hold on, wait... what's the history? If it took place before he got married, then she should cut all contacts.
If it took place afterward they got married, then that's on her. She allowed it once so she should only expect it again.
A strange man said this to me on Facebook. I added him because alot of people dh know add me and I just go along with it. Well, he didn't know dh. He just wanted to be nasty and sent me this message talking bout he wish he could wake up to my pretty face, etc.
I looked at his page and saw he was a elder at his church, married, and fb friends with his own pastor. So I posted his message to his wall so everyone could see it. Then blocked him.
In related news, I've been married almost 8 years and all of my ex's have sent me similar messages on fb. Starts off 'catching up' and ends up with them expressing false regret over getting married or letting me get away. It's all bs and I think some dudes just have some freaky desire to creep or make you creep.
That's why I don't respect what Steve Harvey says about men cheating because women make it easy. It's easier for a woman to cheat than a man cause these dudes don't respect each other or themselves.
Just fishing is all. Response, um, he didn't ask a question. No response needed.
I went out a couple times with a guy I knew from high school. A few months to maybe a year later, he was married.
He still stayed in contact with me for some random reason. I couldn't understand what he wanted, because we hadn't had anything approaching a serious relationship - just casual dates and a few random kisses, hadn't even had sex - so I didn't know why he kept staying in contact with me. It made me uncomfortable since he was married and we weren't friends.
Eventually I deleted him from my facebook and x'd him out of the picture. Now that we weren't going out anymore, I didn't need to hear from him.
The only reason to respond to that text or not do what I did is if you want to sleep with him.
You and your friends get a lot of these huh?
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=582505
The only fool proof way I've found for getting rid of a married man who's on the prowl is to ask him what he thinks his wife is doing while he's out trying to round up a lay.
So if I really wanted to never hear from this dude again I would write back something like "I wonder what your wife would do if someone sent her a message like that?" or even worse "I wonder who'll be entertaining your wife while you're trying to entertain somebody else"? Trust, he will be pissed and then gone in 60 seconds.
I think alot of married women would be shocked at how many married men are openly pursuing other women. I've seen so many married men try to get in it's truly sad because I bet their wives have no idea what they're out there doing.
You re right ,there are plenty out there ,I often wonder what pushes them to engage in such behavior ?Boredom,lack of novelty ,lack of passion ..I ve heard men saying their wife is GREAT and they LOVE her yet try to hook up with a side chick ,I don't get it ,always thought that perhaps thats a way for them to distance themselves from the potential lover ,kind of as to say "Dont get attached to me cuz I m not going to leave my wife" .:buttkick:
^^^ they're saying it, because from what I hear, they're not getting it at home. I did not know that most married people are not that intimate in the bedroom with their spouses. This is what I hear..
^^^ they're saying it, because from what I hear, they're not getting it at home. I did not know that most married people are not that intimate in the bedroom with their spouses. This is what I hear..
You and your friends get a lot of these huh?
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=582505