If a married man sent you this

Kindheart

Kindheart

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...god i wish i was coming home to u and we could make love for hours....i want u so much..

Keep in mind it was sent to a 28 year old woman,single with history with him .
What would be your response to this?
 
I would forward it to his wife :ohwell:

or...

save it as leverage...

or

ignore it depending on my mood for that day...
 
Kindheart said:
...god i wish i was coming home to u and we could make love for hours....i want u so much..

Keep in mind it was sent to a 28 year old woman,single with history with him .
What would be your response to this?
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I didn't pay attention to the bolded...

Hold on, wait... what's the history? If it took place before he got married, then she should cut all contacts.

If it took place afterward they got married, then that's on her. She allowed it once so she should only expect it again.
 
goldielocs said:
I didn't pay attention to the bolded...

Hold on, wait... what's the history? If it took place before he got married, then she should cut all contacts.

If it took place afterward they got married, then that's on her. She allowed it once so she should only expect it again.
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They used to date 10 yrs before he got married,they ve kept in touch but havent had sex ,jist met up in the daylight every few years,she sent me this fot a laugh ,however i find it rather sad..
 
I went out a couple times with a guy I knew from high school. A few months to maybe a year later, he was married.

He still stayed in contact with me for some random reason. I couldn't understand what he wanted, because we hadn't had anything approaching a serious relationship - just casual dates and a few random kisses, hadn't even had sex - so I didn't know why he kept staying in contact with me. It made me uncomfortable since he was married and we weren't friends.

Eventually I deleted him from my facebook and x'd him out of the picture. Now that we weren't going out anymore, I didn't need to hear from him.

The only reason to respond to that text or not do what I did is if you want to sleep with him.
 
What a disrespectful ****. If he's that miserable with his wife then he should go get a divorce or shut up.
 
if I were the 28 year old that he had a previous relationship and he married someone over me there is no way I would be entertaining any texts from from him ...I'm nobody's spare tire ...
 
I would probably say something like your wife wouldn't like that. I bet he would hush up then.
 
A strange man said this to me on Facebook. I added him because alot of people dh know add me and I just go along with it. Well, he didn't know dh. He just wanted to be nasty and sent me this message talking bout he wish he could wake up to my pretty face, etc.

I looked at his page and saw he was a elder at his church, married, and fb friends with his own pastor. So I posted his message to his wall so everyone could see it. Then blocked him.

In related news, I've been married almost 8 years and all of my ex's have sent me similar messages on fb. Starts off 'catching up' and ends up with them expressing false regret over getting married or letting me get away. It's all bs and I think some dudes just have some freaky desire to creep or make you creep.

That's why I don't respect what Steve Harvey says about men cheating because women make it easy. It's easier for a woman to cheat than a man cause these dudes don't respect each other or themselves.
 
SelahOco said:
A strange man said this to me on Facebook. I added him because alot of people dh know add me and I just go along with it. Well, he didn't know dh. He just wanted to be nasty and sent me this message talking bout he wish he could wake up to my pretty face, etc.

I looked at his page and saw he was a elder at his church, married, and fb friends with his own pastor. So I posted his message to his wall so everyone could see it. Then blocked him.

In related news, I've been married almost 8 years and all of my ex's have sent me similar messages on fb. Starts off 'catching up' and ends up with them expressing false regret over getting married or letting me get away. It's all bs and I think some dudes just have some freaky desire to creep or make you creep.

That's why I don't respect what Steve Harvey says about men cheating because women make it easy. It's easier for a woman to cheat than a man cause these dudes don't respect each other or themselves.
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:nono: I swear, if your man is a dog or has tendencies Facebook will put a spotlight on it. I know not too long ago my brother and his wife both deleted their Facebooks because it was causing problems in the marriage (old flames flirting etc).
 
He's trying to prep her to be his mistress. Telling her all the right things ( or what he thinks she wants to hear).
 
*lights up a newport one hunnit*

Make love for hours? Where da hell they do dat ? Bama prolly can't stay hard for 15 minutes, let alone hours. Niccas kill me wif dat bull *in my best accent* i wanna make love to you for hours daahhhhhlin"

Phuck outta hea! And she think dat mess is cute. Who sayz that? He a BAMA!
 
I wouldn't take it serious nor respond. He's dirty flirting and showing no respect. If I'm feeling cheeky I would ask, "Did you get any better in bed since you've been married?" :look: I bet HE would ignore that. Or he might be miserable enough to respond with, "No, worse!" :lol:
 
ask how much he had to drink that day, and suggest he call a cab to get him home safely:lachen:
 
meesch said:
I went out a couple times with a guy I knew from high school. A few months to maybe a year later, he was married.

He still stayed in contact with me for some random reason. I couldn't understand what he wanted, because we hadn't had anything approaching a serious relationship - just casual dates and a few random kisses, hadn't even had sex - so I didn't know why he kept staying in contact with me. It made me uncomfortable since he was married and we weren't friends.

Eventually I deleted him from my facebook and x'd him out of the picture. Now that we weren't going out anymore, I didn't need to hear from him.

The only reason to respond to that text or not do what I did is if you want to sleep with him.
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I've been in a VERY similar situation. Except the guy didn't get married. He and his girlfriend had a kid. One night he drunk dialed me and blabbed about how he has loved me since 10th grade but didn't deserve me. He asked me to come over.... it was 3am! I told him we could talk about it the next day or whenever he got off work, but he said that it wouldn't work. So, the rest of the phone call I just humored him. And now I'm totally done with him.

There's no point in staying in touch with someone like that. Their intentions are not good.
 
The only fool proof way I've found for getting rid of a married man who's on the prowl is to ask him what he thinks his wife is doing while he's out trying to round up a lay.

So if I really wanted to never hear from this dude again I would write back something like "I wonder what your wife would do if someone sent her a message like that?" or even worse "I wonder who'll be entertaining your wife while you're trying to entertain somebody else"? Trust, he will be pissed and then gone in 60 seconds.

I think alot of married women would be shocked at how many married men are openly pursuing other women. I've seen so many married men try to get in it's truly sad because I bet their wives have no idea what they're out there doing.
 
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ambergirl said:
The only fool proof way I've found for getting rid of a married man who's on the prowl is to ask him what he thinks his wife is doing while he's out trying to round up a lay.

So if I really wanted to never hear from this dude again I would write back something like "I wonder what your wife would do if someone sent her a message like that?" or even worse "I wonder who'll be entertaining your wife while you're trying to entertain somebody else"? Trust, he will be pissed and then gone in 60 seconds.

I think alot of married women would be shocked at how many married men are openly pursuing other women. I've seen so many married men try to get in it's truly sad because I bet their wives have no idea what they're out there doing.
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You re right ,there are plenty out there ,I often wonder what pushes them to engage in such behavior ?Boredom,lack of novelty ,lack of passion ..I ve heard men saying their wife is GREAT and they LOVE her yet try to hook up with a side chick ,I don't get it ,always thought that perhaps thats a way for them to distance themselves from the potential lover ,kind of as to say "Dont get attached to me cuz I m not going to leave my wife" .:look::buttkick:
 
Kindheart said:
You re right ,there are plenty out there ,I often wonder what pushes them to engage in such behavior ?Boredom,lack of novelty ,lack of passion ..I ve heard men saying their wife is GREAT and they LOVE her yet try to hook up with a side chick ,I don't get it ,always thought that perhaps thats a way for them to distance themselves from the potential lover ,kind of as to say "Dont get attached to me cuz I m not going to leave my wife" .:look::buttkick:
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I've never understood the "happily" married men with "great" wives who stay trying to get laid.

It must work though because so many are out there saying that nonsense.
 
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^^^ they're saying it, because from what I hear, they're not getting it at home. I did not know that most married people are not that intimate in the bedroom with their spouses. This is what I hear..
 
ThatJerseyGirl said:
^^^ they're saying it, because from what I hear, they're not getting it at home. I did not know that most married people are not that intimate in the bedroom with their spouses. This is what I hear..
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I didn't realize it either until a few years ago. I know several men who say they love their wives, love being married but that one need isn't being met. They try to rationalize it saying "what else am I supposed to do"
 
Let me think...ignore it and feel good about myself

or

Tell him okay and wait for karma and then go to hell.

I choose option 1.
 
ThatJerseyGirl said:
^^^ they're saying it, because from what I hear, they're not getting it at home. I did not know that most married people are not that intimate in the bedroom with their spouses. This is what I hear..
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There must be a reason for this. I wonder what the wives say.
 
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