well you've come to the right place to ask. Alot of us here are PJ's of varying 'strength's /images/graemlins/tongue.gif
Personally, my handsdown fav. shampoo is by L'anza and is called Protein Plus shampoo. Its a really good treatment shampoo that cleans without drying. Its ph balanced and does strengthen and moisturize.
www.lanza.com check 'hair repair' line to read more about it.
I've never been impressed with Elucence MB on my hair.
Conditioner wise my faves are:
Mizani Moisturefuse - Rediscovered this after my stylist used it on me ages ago and am using it currently. Its meant specifically for deep conditioning and really does moisturize. I mix mine with a touch of olive oil too as part of the treatment. Not cheap though, its $10 a bottle but it works.
Motions Moisture Plus (approx $3.99). Its a great low end thick conditioner that contains silicones and it makes the hair nice and slippery. Some girls here don't like cones but I love them.
Alot of girls here have raved over Pantene Smooth and Sleek and/or Daily Moisture Renewal. I've not tried either yet. They also apparently provide nice 'slip' to the hair (and both have identical ingredients oddly enough). I have a DMR bottle 'waiting' to be used so I can't personally testify to it yet /images/graemlins/smirk.gif
Redken Heavy Cream - Its expensive (approx $14) but truly does moisturize the hair thoroughly.'
A good tip I've found is to add a bit of olive oil to whatever conditioner you pick (or do a hot oil pre-treatment before washing) and that alone will boost the moisture in the hair.
Hope these suggestions help a bit.