I wonder if I should start telling guys I'm a virgin

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mischka

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I'm not :look: :lol: but it seems the simplest way to weed out those who are only interested in bumpin' uglies. I'm ever so sick of only meeting guys who want to hook up.
 
that won't work my dear....a dog is a dog is a dog is a dog

i'm ALWAYS straight forward in the beginning....i let them know i want to get to know them first and take it slow....if it gets physical it gets physical but it's not gonna be anytime soon.....if they can't handle it then they get shown to the door...

i like to build the relationship first before we "go there"....
 
mischka said:
I'm not :look: :lol: but it seems the simplest way to weed out those who are only interested in bumpin' uglies. I'm ever so sick of only meeting guys who want to hook up.
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Huh... That is not going to work. You have to set boundaries and stick to them.

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You'll probably actually attract more scumbags. :nono: You do know that there are men who prey on virgins simply so they can take a woman's "V" card, right? :perplexed I wouldn't recommend it.
 
mischka said:
Of course you have to have boundaries, but what I'm talking about is getting rid of the low hanging fruit.
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Boundaries or standards... You decide who you let in your life. Kangs can be attracted to you but dont allow them to occupy any space in your life.

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didn't know it was a joke....i don't recall seeing a "jk"....
we thought you were serious and were only trying to help...:perplexed
 
bunnie82 said:
didn't know it was a joke....i don't recall seeing a "jk"....
we thought you were serious and were only trying to help...:perplexed
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Girl, it's sunday. You know how it goes down. Some people like drama.....smdh.

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mischka I've noticed that you have a tendency to get riled up over nothing. You posted your thoughts and people gave you theirs. Even if you were joking, none of the responses were negative. You're telling people to lighten up but you're the one making this an issue when it wasn't to begin with.
 
uh oh....:blush:

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mischka said:
:rolleyes: first of all this post is half sarcastic, second of all OMG.
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And we were supposed to know that how? :perplexed Your post implied that you were serious. You even provided reasoning for why you thought it was a good idea. People are providing you with valid reasons for why that may not be the best idea. No need for the rudeness. :nono:
 
If I say "I'm not this but I'm gonna tell people I'm this" followed up by ":look: :lol:" feel free to assume there is some frivolity in the claim, k?
 
mischka said:
If I say "I'm not this but I'm gonna tell people I'm this" followed up by ":look: :lol:" feel free to assume there is some frivolity in the claim, k?
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ummmm no.....i took that as you were laughing bc you are not truly a virgin...not a "jk" ....so next time just say "jk"... k? :look:
 
Naw this was just a bad joke and horrible reason to start a thread. Just sayin.

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mischka said:
If I say "I'm not this but I'm gonna tell people I'm this" followed up by ":look: :lol:" feel free to assume there is some frivolity in the claim, k?
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bunnie82 said:
ummmm no.....i took that as you were laughing bc you are not truly a virgin...not a "jk" ....so next time just say "jk"... k? :look:
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:lol: I was going to provide the same constructive criticism. I know that whenever I'm joking I usually add a "JK" somewhere in the mix. I always hate when people claim they are joking and carry a joke on way too far. :nono: Not saying this is what happened here, since I don't think it was a joke to begin with...
 
Going back to the original statement in the thread title, I *used* to do that . . . but then it just ended things before they even get started . . . right now I'm trying to let that topic come up later down the line . . .
 
gabulldawg said:
:lol: I was going to provide the same constructive criticism. I know that whenever I'm joking I usually add a "JK" somewhere in the mix. I always hate when people claim they are joking and carry a joke on way too far. :nono: Not saying this is what happened here, since I don't think it was a joke to begin with...
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girl we know what it is.....this is just silly....

how about this? let's start all over again.....

Yeah girl!!! you should totally say that you're a virgin!!! bc that will make guys respect you more bc you're a "good girl" and they won't try nothin on you! once you tell them you have the V power they will never ever ever have the desire to "get them drawls"......that is unless one day you are actually ready to "give it up"....:look:....but don't you give it up though...k?:nono:
 
bunnie82 said:
girl we know what it is.....this is just silly....

how about this? let's start all over again.....

Yeah girl!!! you should totally say that you're a virgin!!! bc that will make guys respect you more bc you're a "good girl" and they won't try nothin on you! once you tell them you have the V power they will never ever ever have the desire to "get them drawls"......that is unless one day you are actually ready to "give it up"....:look:....but don't you give it up though...k?:nono:
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Lol.....

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