@ Ediese: A-to the-M-E-N!! I didn't meet my sweetie until I moved to Houston. There are LOTS of all types of men down here who are commitment/marriage minded. Yall better recognize!
But I digress...
OP...Fortunately I have never had a problem finding good men. Now don't get me wrong, I have surely dated some jerks, but the majority of them have been great guys, just not for me.
I truly feel you get what you put out. If you are attracting man after man that ain't about ish, it's time to look within. There are an abundance of single, never been locked up, heterosexual men and what I have learned is that you have to pray, reevaluate what qualities you are looking for, have fun trying to find that perfect one.