I think the Relationships forum is great because….

[vevster]

I think we as women tend to get overly emotional and not see things clearly. Especially, when men and their games are in the mix.

When write down our stories in black and white they become more clear.
But to add to the clarity, we have the ladies dissect our issues and mirror them back to us… I think that is GREAT.

It can really help one to stay on track.

 

[-Volare]

Exactly! And I love the fact that no one holds back when it comes to advice no matter how harsh it may sound.

 

[angenoir]

I agree. This forum has helped me alot. I don't always contribute but I always learn so much from the things the ladies share and the advice given.

Thank you all.

 

[Imani]

Its crazy the simple things we just can't always see or grasp ourselves sometimes when we are so caught up in a situation w/a man.

For me, it would be things I've heard a thousand times from a thousand different people but someone on the board will just put it words that will make that light bulb go off in my head. I'll have that "aha" moment and it'll all start to click. It'll be like, okay, I get it now, it makes sense.

This board kept me from further wasting my time w/a loser who obviously wasn't thinking about me.

 

[Angelicus]

Getting advice from someone on the outside looking in is sometimes the best advice. I would love for people to learn from my mistakes, especially from my last relationship.

 

[keysha1983]

So true! I think my family and friends are tired of my dating nightmares! LOL! I need some new people to vent on.

 

[Choclatcotton]

If it weren't for LHCF and the sound relationship advice I received for relationship that was progressing down, I dont know where I would be. The sister may not even fully realized how she called my situation out in black in white. I am forever grateful for the reality check. LHCF Kappa kappa sisterhood.

 

[DaPPeR]

I agree with everyones statement and would like to add that its very helpful when your GOING THROUGH IT and u hear everyone elses situation and how they got through, u realize that ur not the only one and u too will one day GET BETTER.

I am glad that we are here for each other.

 

[lady_godiva]

I completely agree. This website has helped me tremendously. LHCF is like a virtual BFF.