GodMadeMePretty
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I think I\'m off the transitioning wagon(long)
Last night I started on my hair about 9 with a hot oil treatment (coconut, olive and jojoba oils) under a soft bonnet dryer. I shampooed that out with Elasta QP shampoo for relaxed hair. Then I deep conditioned (with heat) with homemade Cathy Howse conditioner with ion reconstructor, coconut oil, olive oil, jojoba, peppermint oil. Rinsed that out and deep conditioned with Humectress (I am not liking the feel of this for the price) with heat and rinsed that out.
Then I tried to detangle my hair in the shower. I haven't combed my hair through for about two weeks. Partly because my hair was feeling hard due to my inattentiveness to the salt in my water softener and partly because I never really comb through anyway. I just conditioner wash and fingercomb into a ponyball. Anyway, I've never had my relaxed ends tangle together like they were. I kept putting conditioner in it to try to work out the tangles and let the conditioner and the water stream work it out. It didn't help. When I realized that I would be taking a cold shower for about an hour, I decided to give it a rest.
OK, after all this conditioning, it's 12:15. I had decided to rollerset my hair like I've heard people do. It took me 3 hours
to detangle and rollerset my hair with twenty-four 2 1/2-inch rollers. Detangling was not even pretty. So anyway, I didn't have the luxury of waiting for my hair to airdry for hours because I had to be somewhere at 9:00 so at 3:15, I put the soft bonnet on and it just barely covered those huge rollers. (It also helped that I don't use the soft bonnet that came with the dryer because that thing would not have fit. I used a bonnet that attaches to a blow dryer with my soft bonnet). By 4:15, I was exhausted and couldn't stand it anymore so I went to sleep with the dryer on. But it got dry.
BUT my roots were still puffy and I tried to blow out the roots but my blowdryer doesn't have a comb (I'm going to have to buy one) so I gave that up and flat-ironed a few sections. My hair is so thick that I only flat-ironed the front and the very back because that's where I started flat-ironing when I realized that I just didn't have time to do my entire head since I woke up at 7:30 and had to leave the house by 8:30.
Anyway, I'm more encouraged that I was able to rollerset it and get the ends looking really good - my husband asked me if I was going to take pictures and this was before I flat-ironed it. But I want to see my length even though I'm wearing protective styles and I know I'm not going to take the time to press my hair. And my hair with a relaxer is affected by the humidity. Even with rollersetting it and then flat-ironing it, it takes more time than with the relaxer. And I just don't know if I'm up to dealing with my natural hair.
Maybe if I detangle every day, it won't be so bad, but man I am soooooo tired right now and a relaxer with less time for detangling is looking really good right now.
It's time for some zzzzs.
Maybe after I've gotten some rest, I'll be thinking more clearly.
ETA: I was very pleased with the small amount of hair that came out with the detangling considering my hair hadn't been combed through for about 2 weeks. I would estimate about 50-75 hairs.
Last night I started on my hair about 9 with a hot oil treatment (coconut, olive and jojoba oils) under a soft bonnet dryer. I shampooed that out with Elasta QP shampoo for relaxed hair. Then I deep conditioned (with heat) with homemade Cathy Howse conditioner with ion reconstructor, coconut oil, olive oil, jojoba, peppermint oil. Rinsed that out and deep conditioned with Humectress (I am not liking the feel of this for the price) with heat and rinsed that out.
Then I tried to detangle my hair in the shower. I haven't combed my hair through for about two weeks. Partly because my hair was feeling hard due to my inattentiveness to the salt in my water softener and partly because I never really comb through anyway. I just conditioner wash and fingercomb into a ponyball. Anyway, I've never had my relaxed ends tangle together like they were. I kept putting conditioner in it to try to work out the tangles and let the conditioner and the water stream work it out. It didn't help. When I realized that I would be taking a cold shower for about an hour, I decided to give it a rest.
OK, after all this conditioning, it's 12:15. I had decided to rollerset my hair like I've heard people do. It took me 3 hours
BUT my roots were still puffy and I tried to blow out the roots but my blowdryer doesn't have a comb (I'm going to have to buy one) so I gave that up and flat-ironed a few sections. My hair is so thick that I only flat-ironed the front and the very back because that's where I started flat-ironing when I realized that I just didn't have time to do my entire head since I woke up at 7:30 and had to leave the house by 8:30.
Anyway, I'm more encouraged that I was able to rollerset it and get the ends looking really good - my husband asked me if I was going to take pictures and this was before I flat-ironed it. But I want to see my length even though I'm wearing protective styles and I know I'm not going to take the time to press my hair. And my hair with a relaxer is affected by the humidity. Even with rollersetting it and then flat-ironing it, it takes more time than with the relaxer. And I just don't know if I'm up to dealing with my natural hair.
Maybe if I detangle every day, it won't be so bad, but man I am soooooo tired right now and a relaxer with less time for detangling is looking really good right now.
ETA: I was very pleased with the small amount of hair that came out with the detangling considering my hair hadn't been combed through for about 2 weeks. I would estimate about 50-75 hairs.