I think a pervert is stalking my fotki!

[Prettyeyes]

He left a comment on a older shower pic. You know with really wet hair. Only my shoulders and very little upper back are showing and he said "Why don't you show more?" All of my hair was not in the pic but I don't think he was talking about my hair. What can/should I do? I am uncomfortable with men commenting like this UUUGGGHHH!

 

[beans4reezy]

OMG!!!! That is soooooooo creepy!!! I would lock your photo albums asap!! Are you able to report the comment to Fotki?

 

[anon123]

It's the risk we take when we put our pictures up . Especially if it's one in shower naked with water running down our hair and bodies. If it makes you uncomfortable, delete those photos. Even still, there are hair fetishists who might still have a good time.

Doesn't really bother me, though.

 

[AllAboutMoi]

Lock it up ASAP! No doubt. Ridiculous! Some folks have nothing else to do.

 

[Ms. A.Sunshine]

"Why don't you show more?"

Ewww.......girl that sound like a line out of a bad Lifetime movie!!! Lock that thang up....and quick!!!!

 

[mswoman]

I think you have to be a member to make comments.... lock it up and report him.

 

[TeeWhyAre]

This same thing happened to Traycee. Def lock it up & put the pw in your profile if you're uncomfortable with it.

 

[Prettyeyes]

It is so weird because that is the ONE and ONLY shower pic in my fotki and I have a few years worth of pics. So he must have really searched through/stalked my albums to find it. It is wrong HE KNOWS IT IS A HAIR JOURNAL and I will remove that one photo even though it is not suggestive. It is in no way our fault when men objectify us women while we are just living our life. IT IS NOT OKAY NOT EVEN IN THE LEAST. IT IS A RISK BUT STILL WRONG.

 

[jetbeauty09]

Getting your Fotki would help. Its a pain but I wouldn't take any chances.

 

[tarheelgurl]

Lock it...........

 

[Prettyeyes]

Once my dh finds out I will probaly have to lock it anyway but I enjoyed leaving it open for three years now, Man this is annoying...

 

[andromeda]

Sorry this happened to you, OP. Some people....

It's the risk we take when we put our pictures up . Especially if it's one in shower naked with water running down our hair and bodies. If it makes you uncomfortable, delete those photos. Even still, there are hair fetishists who might still have a good time.

Doesn't really bother me, though.

Very true.

@ visual image evoked by "hair fetishists having a good time"

 

[Highly Favored8]

Goodness. That is just sick. I would lock it.

 

[mscocoface]

Take the one picture out see if that helps. If you get more comments then lock it up.

 

[Firefly]

Girl, Lock it Up!!! It's not going to get better..only worse. He will notice that you've removed the picture and I'm sure he'll have some idiotic comment. Why put yourself through that. I had the same problem and it was waaaay worse. I received disgusting sexual and racial comments. My DH sternly suggested that I lock it up (he said it was to keep my blood pressure down but we know the real reason ;~D). People that want to view your hair will leave you a message for the pw and you can check out their profile so you know they're legit before giving your pw. It works for me.

 

[Chicoro]

I got the same comment. It was some man from Russia. I just deleted the comment. I have had a fotki for about five years. In that time, I have received maybe three comments that were inappropriate or creepy. There are perverts every where. You have to do what works for you.

 

[loveisnthehouse]

That's just creepy!! I agree, lock it up. That is why I tend to not put many photos up.

 

[lovenharmony]

lock it and report him!

 

[Prettyeyes]

Yeah, I am going to make my decision tonight. I have not had any perverts in three years until now. so IDK. I already removed the pic and told the guy to stay away from my fotki or he will be reported. He is some guy from Turkey.

 

[nissi]

You are too kind! I am sure he is doing, or has already done, this to someone else! Report his tail!

 

[Bunmi]

Something very similar happened to me a few weeks ago. It really creeped me out. I kindly informed the person (in a private message) that I use Fotki to track my healthy hair journey only, and for no other prupose. I asked him to please respect my wishes. He responded with an apology and that was the end of that.

 

[isabella09]

Sorry this happened to you, I would lock it ASAP.

 

[Lucky's Mom]

Lock it up - or get rid of it.

I got tired of the drama - so I killed off my account. those creeps are out there.

Naked - or the idea of naked pics are not good to put up on your fotki.....

 

[empressri]

I had someone obsessed with me on youtube, asking me did I enjoy wearing a cape when I washed my hair, what color was my cape and could I send them pictures of me wearing one???

 

[Kranbery]

Sorry OP but....

"Why don't you show more?"

Ewww.......girl that sound like a line out of a bad Lifetime movie!!! Lock that thang up....and quick!!!!

IDK, I might be a bit creepy myself, but I would wait and see just how ridiculous this man could get

 

[Stella B.]

Lock it up, and throw away the key! Remove that pic, and put it in a place where only your eyes can see it. The nerve of some people, but when you take the risk of putting it out there, you're making it available to everyone-rejects and creeps included.