...being honest here....
You all know that I'm in school and I'm in an intensive time of writing and preparation for research. With that said, I have not been going to Sunday services so that I can stay home and study. Some Sunday mornings are more productive than others. Even right now, it's Sunday morning and I should be studying but I'm on LCHF (that's another story!)
So I've finally found the word "distraction" to articulate my current feelings about attending church. I now have several questions about what I used to think was "normal" or "acceptable". Let me be clear: I have NO PROBLEM with my church pastors. It's not them personally at all. I have no problem with tithing, prayer, benevolence, evangelism, the core functions of what the Kingdom of God is all about. It's the organized religion/institutional church thing. It's how the megachurch gets mocked, the scandals, the constant criticism. I recognize part of my questioning is coming from my intellect/schooling, etc.
Also, I have dealt with feelings of inadequacy because of marital status on occasion. It's like at my church, the epitome of success, nirvana is being married with children.
I do pray about this. Who can I talk to? What does help look like in this situation? What concerns me most is how I may be neglecting my spiritual calling/assignments in the church. Yes, I'm called to be an intercessor. I can pray at home. I don't want to miss God. I know He's called me to go to school....
I'm being very vulnerable here. Thank you in advance for careful and prayerful reading.
You all know that I'm in school and I'm in an intensive time of writing and preparation for research. With that said, I have not been going to Sunday services so that I can stay home and study. Some Sunday mornings are more productive than others. Even right now, it's Sunday morning and I should be studying but I'm on LCHF (that's another story!)
So I've finally found the word "distraction" to articulate my current feelings about attending church. I now have several questions about what I used to think was "normal" or "acceptable". Let me be clear: I have NO PROBLEM with my church pastors. It's not them personally at all. I have no problem with tithing, prayer, benevolence, evangelism, the core functions of what the Kingdom of God is all about. It's the organized religion/institutional church thing. It's how the megachurch gets mocked, the scandals, the constant criticism. I recognize part of my questioning is coming from my intellect/schooling, etc.
Also, I have dealt with feelings of inadequacy because of marital status on occasion. It's like at my church, the epitome of success, nirvana is being married with children.
I do pray about this. Who can I talk to? What does help look like in this situation? What concerns me most is how I may be neglecting my spiritual calling/assignments in the church. Yes, I'm called to be an intercessor. I can pray at home. I don't want to miss God. I know He's called me to go to school....
I'm being very vulnerable here. Thank you in advance for careful and prayerful reading.