Endlesslegs
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*sigh* My SO and I have been together for about 6 months and been best frends for about 2.
why am I even bothering?
Do u guys think im wasting my time?
*sigh* My SO and I have been together for about 6 months and been best frends for about 2. We've broken up about 4 times within the last 4 months, its been ridiculous. Ive broken up with him each time mostly becase of my impatience. He's going through a lot of things right now with finals and he was very detached from me and it was hurting me that he wasn't confiding with me or keeping in touch AT ALL.
just before we broke up the last time, everything was great, we had decided to work on our relationship, unfortunately something came up and he got quite upset about it, saying he would need time to get over it. he did not call me for about a week and I got mad and broke up with him. he was the one that caused the drama every single time and I slipped up the once and he wanted to crucify me?
anyway, I called him after becuse I miss him sooo much, he is my best friend and I feel like I am missing a limb. He says he wants time for a 'break' to get himself together. I asked him if he still cared about me and he said 'I haven't been thinking about that lately'..ive been too busy
I call him quite often but he said he wanted a clean break so he could come back to the relationship refreshed. how would that work if we dont even speak? He never calls me now... I asked him how long his break would take he said he doesnt kno...
why am I even bothering? I know I hurt him to some extent but he's completely shutting me out I dont even know what to do ladies. He's an amazing person, I know he's busy right now, but he needs to set the atmosphere for us to get back together.
Do u guys think im wasting my time?
Ummm. I hope I don't offend, but how old are you? The same thing happened to me when I was 17. I'm sorry to say this but each time you broke up with him, you were right. There is no exuse why he couldn't pick up the phone and call. He didn't and still doesn't want to be bothered. A " clean break" is code for just that, BREAK UP. A lot of men (boys) play that "clean break, and I'll get back to you when my head is cleared" BS when they are interested in someone else, but if no one is checkin them, then you're the "fall back" girl. Then, when you call them constantly, they get annoyed and treat you badly. Take it from someone who has been there. Make it a CLEAN BREAK. Don't sweat him and do you. Sorry hon.
- We've broken up about 4 times within the last 4 months
- he was very detached from me and it was hurting me that he wasn't confiding with me or keeping in touch AT ALL
- he did not call me for about a week and I got mad and broke up with him.
- he was the one that caused the drama every single time
- he said 'I haven't been thinking about that lately'..ive been too busy
- he said he wanted a clean break
- He never calls me now...
- I asked him how long his break would take he said he doesnt kno..
*sigh* My SO and I have been together for about 6 months and been best frends for about 2. We've broken up about 4 times within the last 4 months, its been ridiculous. Ive broken up with him each time mostly becase of my impatience. He's going through a lot of things right now with finals and he was very detached from me and it was hurting me that he wasn't confiding with me or keeping in touch AT ALL.
just before we broke up the last time, everything was great, we had decided to work on our relationship, unfortunately something came up and he got quite upset about it, saying he would need time to get over it. he did not call me for about a week and I got mad and broke up with him. he was the one that caused the drama every single time and I slipped up the once and he wanted to crucify me?
anyway, I called him after becuse I miss him sooo much, he is my best friend and I feel like I am missing a limb. He says he wants time for a 'break' to get himself together. I asked him if he still cared about me an he said 'I haven't been thinking about that lately'..ive been too busy
I call him quite often but he said he wanted a clean break so he could come back to the relationship refreshed. how would that work if we dont even speak? He never calls me now... I asked him how long his break would take he said he doesnt kno...
why am I even bothering? I know I hurt him to some extent but he's completely shutting me out I dont even know what to do ladies. He's an amazing person, I know he's busy right now, but he needs to set the atmosphere for us to get back together.
Do u guys think im wasting my time?