crlsweetie912
Well-Known Member
Here's the scenario:
Recently, my mom came into some money and stated that she would gift me money to purchase a house (down payment). My neighborhood is really bad and my neighbor's house has been broken into several times. By God's Grace and mercy, my home has been untouched. So I begin the process of working with a lender and get pre-approved to purchase. (paying off bills, paying down my car, working to get my credit score up)
Then...
My car breaks down and I find out that the transmission is shot and it will cost 1800.00 to fix. I only have about 2000.00 left on the car to pay it off. My mom thinks that I should get a new car (she will give me the money for down payment for the car that I would have used toward getting a house) and move in with my sister so that I can save up money for a house on my own. I don't know if yall remember, but about a year ago, I was living with my sister and it was pure hell. Plus, I would have to put my things in storage and that means I would have to move twice (into my sisters house and again when I find my own place)
I want to get another person to rebuild my transmission (or used one) to give me enough time to purchase my home, then get another car next year around tax refund time.
My mother told me straight out if I don't do it the way that she says, she won't help me financially either way, with the car or with the house.
I really am confused now and I need to hear from the Lord. The enemy is throwing all these things at me to keep my focus off of what is important. I am fasting and praying for direction. I want to cry, but I won't because I KNOW that the Lord has this under control. Thank you in advance for your prayers.
Recently, my mom came into some money and stated that she would gift me money to purchase a house (down payment). My neighborhood is really bad and my neighbor's house has been broken into several times. By God's Grace and mercy, my home has been untouched. So I begin the process of working with a lender and get pre-approved to purchase. (paying off bills, paying down my car, working to get my credit score up)
Then...
My car breaks down and I find out that the transmission is shot and it will cost 1800.00 to fix. I only have about 2000.00 left on the car to pay it off. My mom thinks that I should get a new car (she will give me the money for down payment for the car that I would have used toward getting a house) and move in with my sister so that I can save up money for a house on my own. I don't know if yall remember, but about a year ago, I was living with my sister and it was pure hell. Plus, I would have to put my things in storage and that means I would have to move twice (into my sisters house and again when I find my own place)
I want to get another person to rebuild my transmission (or used one) to give me enough time to purchase my home, then get another car next year around tax refund time.
My mother told me straight out if I don't do it the way that she says, she won't help me financially either way, with the car or with the house.
I really am confused now and I need to hear from the Lord. The enemy is throwing all these things at me to keep my focus off of what is important. I am fasting and praying for direction. I want to cry, but I won't because I KNOW that the Lord has this under control. Thank you in advance for your prayers.