but its so hard for me. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and we just had a baby girl in October. I truly want to be a better person for my daughter, myself, and God. However everytime i get on track a couple months later i fall off, and its not just me my boyfriend wants to stop also. We can go months without having sex and its like tension builds up and we have sex again . We really do truly love each other thats why were trying to stop but its hard when you really love someone and you expierenced that connection with them and Im tired of confessing to god and apologizing then i end up messing up again its not right. How many times will he forgive me? im not asking that im just saying maybe he'll give up on me or something. So can you guys give my boyfriend and i some advice, we really need help.