If it helps, they are Indian of Hindu religion and first met in Feb 2010, engaged by the July and married in November 2010- her maternal grandparents introduced them after she told her family she was ready for marriage (she was 25 at the time).
If she is so big and bad, why didn't see move in with her man? If she is done, she is done.I just think it's dangerous to be playing with people's emotions like that. Her husband is stunned that she's being so cold and won't try and work it out. She moved all her things out of their home behind his back yesterday, moved back to her family temporarily til gets own place and he's blowing up her phone.
Thickhair... Her new man... Lives with his parents.
metro_qt said:I may be wrong, but that's traditional in Indian culture right?
For children to remain at home, no matter how old they are until they're married... I knew a lot of people who lived at home until married...
What going to happen if they get serious, and the new parents realize she's 'damaged goods' I.e divorce...
I've also heard, and could be very wrong, that its very hard for Indian women to get remarried after divorce... Only because of the stigma
what men do you know that will get over that quickly, bc i dont know anyThe husband doesn't sound like such a great guy to me. He was meeting with other women. She was meeting a man. They behave the same.
The problem is, women don't usually get over that kind of stuff like men do. She probably lost the love for him after that. When that happens, many people start looking for someone one else. She just don't want the marriage anymore. It happens.
And who knows what he was doing behind closed doors. There's a lot of charismatic men out there that would have you thinking they were the perfect man. But if you'd ask their wives and girlfriends you'd get a totally different picture of them.
^ Yes.. She talks A LOT!
Apparently after they'd been married a month she found out that he'd been meeting his ex girlfriend (who he was at the same workplace at the time) for lunch all the time she'd been busy planning their wedding and she'd been upfront with him about her past.
HOWEVER- I know she'd also been meeting up with her ex " the love of her life" during that time and not told him so that doesn't hold water with me.
She says there's just no chemistry but she wasn't saying that before she met this other guy; they'd even opened a baby fund account to save for a baby..
She is now telling her family and she told him for the past seven months that he made her feel trapped and was too possessive (caring IMO ie. Calling her at lunchtime to say hi)