ThinNnappy
New Member
Oh, im so sad. Im only 16 right now, but i really feel like i should be natural, i def. dont want to chop off my hair and i need to get touchups or else the hair i have will breack.
on one hand i want to have long straight waist length hair for the first time in my life
But then again ever since i was young i felt like i was being wrong, I am more proud to be black then anyone i know, it makes my family sick sometimes-they be like "oh lord, im rasing a malcom x" But here i am getting relaxers-and i know its not to be "white", but its because i want to look pretty, and no im not wrong for saying straight hair is pretty, because i know natural hair is beautifull as well
And then i know God blessed me with this hair, and im just changing it, not because i sat down and thought about it and was aware that i wanted to-but because i've been going with the flow- and i think straight relaxed hair is dead and if i had natural hair it would be character, and black people are the ONLY people in the WORLD with this type of hair, meant to be different and special...and we should all be proud-and here i go just mosying along conforming....
I dont know what to do...I dont want to do it now because i dont want to be bald, but i am selling out so bad to myself. Did any naturals feel this way before transitioning? I hope im not just crazy.I guess i'll just wait untill i reach my hair goal, and cut my relaxed heair as the natural hair grows-but you know what... i dont even have that curly beutifull hair anyway, when my hair is natural, its just straight and thick, and just nappy...i cant win
on one hand i want to have long straight waist length hair for the first time in my life
But then again ever since i was young i felt like i was being wrong, I am more proud to be black then anyone i know, it makes my family sick sometimes-they be like "oh lord, im rasing a malcom x" But here i am getting relaxers-and i know its not to be "white", but its because i want to look pretty, and no im not wrong for saying straight hair is pretty, because i know natural hair is beautifull as well
And then i know God blessed me with this hair, and im just changing it, not because i sat down and thought about it and was aware that i wanted to-but because i've been going with the flow- and i think straight relaxed hair is dead and if i had natural hair it would be character, and black people are the ONLY people in the WORLD with this type of hair, meant to be different and special...and we should all be proud-and here i go just mosying along conforming....
I dont know what to do...I dont want to do it now because i dont want to be bald, but i am selling out so bad to myself. Did any naturals feel this way before transitioning? I hope im not just crazy.I guess i'll just wait untill i reach my hair goal, and cut my relaxed heair as the natural hair grows-but you know what... i dont even have that curly beutifull hair anyway, when my hair is natural, its just straight and thick, and just nappy...i cant win