DreamLife
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I hate to say it was the devil but...
I broke up with this guy because I knew that the relationship was not right, conversations were not of God, and we were not on the same spiritual path. So he still hasn't come to terms with it and he calls today and wants to rehash the whole breakup. I explain that I need to be by myself, I realize he was not the one for me and that I am changing my life to live for God.
He states:
"Why fool yourself into believing that this time you are really going to live for God, all you will do is fall and fail and make the same mistakes that you have made your whole life"
"I feel like you are judging me...you are just as sinful and EVIL as I am, its human nature, you are going to sin over and over again, you can never change your inherent nature"
"How can you expect to find a spiritual man, living for God...its just not going to happen...I know scripture, I go to church, I'm more RELIGIOUS than you anyway...if you find a more spiritual person good luck, especially good luck on someone who doesn't just want you just because of your looks and your body"
"This is just a phase, you run to God when you are stressed out and as soon as things are ok you will go back to your little evil ways, just stop being inconsistent"
"Its going to take you years to break the bond we had"
"This is just another mood swing...you will be back, I can manipulate you because I know you so well"
After further statements I stopped him and stated:
"I feel that we cannot be friends anymore and I cannot talk to you ever again because you have disrespected and hurt me. Have a merry Christmas and Happy New Year."
He states " Wow...look at this child of God...is that how a child of God would respond? What about forgiveness? You can't talk to me again? What if you look me up and I have died within that time...how would you feel knowing that you said that to me?"
I just had to go.
I praise GOD because I know He has changed me. When I got off the phone all I could do was pray for him. Even after all that I still have no hard feelings for him and I can move on...he just doesn't understand.
The eerie thing was that those quotes he said were the same things that I hear sometimes when I'm trying to grow closer to God and I know that it is nothing but the enemy...it sent some shivers down my spine...
I broke up with this guy because I knew that the relationship was not right, conversations were not of God, and we were not on the same spiritual path. So he still hasn't come to terms with it and he calls today and wants to rehash the whole breakup. I explain that I need to be by myself, I realize he was not the one for me and that I am changing my life to live for God.
He states:
"Why fool yourself into believing that this time you are really going to live for God, all you will do is fall and fail and make the same mistakes that you have made your whole life"
"I feel like you are judging me...you are just as sinful and EVIL as I am, its human nature, you are going to sin over and over again, you can never change your inherent nature"
"How can you expect to find a spiritual man, living for God...its just not going to happen...I know scripture, I go to church, I'm more RELIGIOUS than you anyway...if you find a more spiritual person good luck, especially good luck on someone who doesn't just want you just because of your looks and your body"
"This is just a phase, you run to God when you are stressed out and as soon as things are ok you will go back to your little evil ways, just stop being inconsistent"
"Its going to take you years to break the bond we had"
"This is just another mood swing...you will be back, I can manipulate you because I know you so well"
After further statements I stopped him and stated:
"I feel that we cannot be friends anymore and I cannot talk to you ever again because you have disrespected and hurt me. Have a merry Christmas and Happy New Year."
He states " Wow...look at this child of God...is that how a child of God would respond? What about forgiveness? You can't talk to me again? What if you look me up and I have died within that time...how would you feel knowing that you said that to me?"
I just had to go.
I praise GOD because I know He has changed me. When I got off the phone all I could do was pray for him. Even after all that I still have no hard feelings for him and I can move on...he just doesn't understand.
The eerie thing was that those quotes he said were the same things that I hear sometimes when I'm trying to grow closer to God and I know that it is nothing but the enemy...it sent some shivers down my spine...
Girl, thank Jesus, I'm thanking Him with you
erplexed. The two of you are not equally yoked 
. You won't be able to tell that he's sent and he won't know the devil sent him either. You stay close to God and listen to what Jesus tells you the moment you lay eyes on these brothers and He wil let you know which are the ones that HE has sent and which are the devil's.
Q
but this really hit me because it brings up what I've been through. It reminds me that I obviously don't really know what LOVE and what a relationship is because there was this one guy who had a really powerful hold on me. He was really abusive AND he had a girlfriend. I was forced into this relationship. I was on campus in school one time and he would literally drag me into the car kicking and screaming with everyone watching. Anyway. Just brought chills up my spine. 
