I don't know what to do about him (vent)

yuhlovevybz

yuhlovevybz

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((This thread is mainly for venting purposes....I've been goin for this too long and needa release some steam))

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You say you're venting, so I won't even get into this too deeply.

But at this point, I hope you realize you're inviting misery into your own life because you keep entertaining him. You're texting him, answering calls, looking through emails...you will always be in this low place until you decide you've had enough. He isn't doing anything to you. You're allowing and did allow yourself to be his "victim."
 
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Da hell is goin on wif all dis phuckery?

I thought LHCF had a word limit. I need a black n mild...damn da newport one hunnit!
 
ThatJerseyGirl said:
Da hell is goin on wif all dis phuckery?

I thought LHCF had a word limit. I need a black n mild...damn da newport one hunnit!
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Good day M'am! LMAO!

Sent from my EVO using LHCF
 
Sounds like you're addicted to relationship drama. You're not a victim here, you're a participant. You need to choose differently (not just men but also your own behavior in relationships)
 
It's good to vent...and then find a solution. From here on, at the first hint of stress with any man, the point where you start second guessing him, yourself and where you feel uncomfortable to the point of crying, cut off all ties because that's a sign your peace of mind is being threatened. Preserve your peace of mind and sanity at all costs. That's all I got and I speak from experience.
 
There's a word limit, hence the two posts. Sorry that was so long, but when I vent, I vent.

Starian I'm not playing victim. Sorry but I hate that turn. Also ambergirl I don't like drama, nobody does. I think I'm a weak and clingy person. It is my fault, of course. I always ask myself why I didn't stop this three months after it started. I always have trouble getting over guys that come into my life. I have to realize that there are better and each guy won't be the last one in the world. I mean I do realize this but the thoughts go through my mindand then I act completely differently.

HoneyA your advice here sounds perfect. I need to be a stronger person and solve these things before they get so far out of hand. I always tell myself I won't be one of those women who lets a guy treat me like this or that or sticks around under this kind of treatment and then I do. Sometimes I just need somebody to be there and tell me they love me. Sounds weak I know but it's been my problem ever since I first started dating
 
yuhlovevybz said:
There's a word limit, hence the two posts. Sorry that was so long, but when I vent, I vent.

@Starian I'm not playing victim. Sorry but I hate that turn. Also @ambergirl I don't like drama, nobody does. I think I'm a weak and clingy person. It is my fault, of course. I always ask myself why I didn't stop this three months after it started. I always have trouble getting over guys that come into my life. I have to realize that there are better and each guy won't be the last one in the world. I mean I do realize this but the thoughts go through my mindand then I act completely differently.

@HoneyA your advice here sounds perfect. I need to be a stronger person and solve these things before they get so far out of hand. I always tell myself I won't be one of those women who lets a guy treat me like this or that or sticks around under this kind of treatment and then I do. Sometimes I just need somebody to be there and tell me they love me. Sounds weak I know but it's been my problem ever since I first started dating
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The bolded may be true, but as I remember of your post, this relationship didn't have red flags...more like big blaring sirens and giant stop signs! You weren't that into him to begin with but you kept on and kept on until you became attached, weak, and clingy...that's why I think there's a part of you that is attracted to drama because it seemed clear you were very involved in creating it for yourself.

But it sounds like you're asking yourself the right questions and hopefully with some self exploration you can get to the root of your relationship troubles and make better choices for yourself.
 
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