I can't make up my mind, its getting frustrating!!

[Saida]

I keep going back and forth weither or not im going to go Natural or not, I just cant make up my mind. I know its because of all this new growth, Naturals who successfully transitioned how do you get to the stage to where you dont even think relaxing is an option?

 

[naturalgurl]

When I transitioned I came to the conclusion of not relaxing when I saw how much thicker and healthier my hair was natural. Then I thought, "hey if I want to wear it straight, I can flat iron". When I did that, my hair was soooo much thicker and shinier straightened than when it was relaxd. After that, I was sold on not going back to relaxing. Well, that and the fact that my hair didn't shed a quarter of what it did when I was relaxed.

 

[santwon]

Well, what are your personal pros and cons? That may help you further decide.

I believe people get to that point by just loving hteir hair and learning how best to take care of it. Then you just get really used to it.